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Given Up Completely With X
Hi,
Many of you guys may have read my previous post abour trying to take my x away for a night to sort out out relationship. I mentioned we had both slept with people etc and she had been flirting on the internet. She has a 2 year old child, I am 20 on monday and she is 19 in a week or so.
Anyway I have been texting her etc and she has been saying she is confused about everything and isn't sure what she wants and that she does still love me. However I got in a state on monday so I called her, she basically said that she was busy and she would call me back later, explaining in a text she was with her mum.
Anyway she called me back later that night but failed to tell me till today that she wasn't with her mum but with another man. So between me calling her and her calling me back she went out with another man and had sex with him, with no remorse. From my point of view she had not considered me at all to do this especially after she told me she needed to think and she still loved me.
I have decided to give up on her completely, even though this will be hard I plan on going out and slagging it about too. The thing that still suprised me was that she still was going on about how she didn't know what she wanted etc. I find this twisted and her trust completely gone so im going to try and get on with things.
If anyone is in Loughborough Vice Versa 2morrow, give me a shout lol
Cheers folks lets me know what you think and whats the best way to keep my mind off things.
Many of you guys may have read my previous post abour trying to take my x away for a night to sort out out relationship. I mentioned we had both slept with people etc and she had been flirting on the internet. She has a 2 year old child, I am 20 on monday and she is 19 in a week or so.
Anyway I have been texting her etc and she has been saying she is confused about everything and isn't sure what she wants and that she does still love me. However I got in a state on monday so I called her, she basically said that she was busy and she would call me back later, explaining in a text she was with her mum.
Anyway she called me back later that night but failed to tell me till today that she wasn't with her mum but with another man. So between me calling her and her calling me back she went out with another man and had sex with him, with no remorse. From my point of view she had not considered me at all to do this especially after she told me she needed to think and she still loved me.
I have decided to give up on her completely, even though this will be hard I plan on going out and slagging it about too. The thing that still suprised me was that she still was going on about how she didn't know what she wanted etc. I find this twisted and her trust completely gone so im going to try and get on with things.
If anyone is in Loughborough Vice Versa 2morrow, give me a shout lol
Cheers folks lets me know what you think and whats the best way to keep my mind off things.
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I understand you're feeling rubbish about what she done but the relationship between you both had ended and although there was still feelings floating around you were both single at the time...
Do you understand what I'm trying to say?
Do you understand what I'm trying to say?
Yes but she said she would talk to me about things when she got back and not to move away, which I had planned. She knew I had feelings and she said she loved me back, knowing I wanted to work things out.
I feel betrayed as ive not been around anyone else while trying to sort this mess out, we maynot be going out but before she went away we went for a meal, and stopped over 3 nights both getting on really well.
Its not right when she says she loves me and to wait so I can talk to her, yet she brushes me off to get a shag. Shes just too easy and not worth the hastle. I have a whole new life at edinburgh uni hopefully, why should I settle for a rough looking girl who is living on the state, with a child without a father, no future prospects, no qualifications, who is a slag. I just feel like my self convidence is rocked, it used to be great I could get girls quite easily (not being big headed). She just wants some rich chap to set her up for life lol. As I have described her, someone like myself hoping to study maths w/management should surely aim higher, thats what im telling myself.
Cheers
I feel betrayed as ive not been around anyone else while trying to sort this mess out, we maynot be going out but before she went away we went for a meal, and stopped over 3 nights both getting on really well.
Its not right when she says she loves me and to wait so I can talk to her, yet she brushes me off to get a shag. Shes just too easy and not worth the hastle. I have a whole new life at edinburgh uni hopefully, why should I settle for a rough looking girl who is living on the state, with a child without a father, no future prospects, no qualifications, who is a slag. I just feel like my self convidence is rocked, it used to be great I could get girls quite easily (not being big headed). She just wants some rich chap to set her up for life lol. As I have described her, someone like myself hoping to study maths w/management should surely aim higher, thats what im telling myself.
Cheers
streetyfatb
I have a whole new life at edinburgh uni hopefully, why should I settle for a rough looking girl who is living on the state, with a child without a father, no future prospects, no qualifications, who is a slag.
You'll love Edinburgh once you get here, forget about her and start fresh. You'll be in the same shoes as quite a lot of people and it's the perfect opportunity to meet those who are more on your level of thinking and so on. Her loss.
well I won't start till next year which is a shame, I would love to pack my bags and start a new life. Its quite amusing all these lads using her for sex. Putting pics of herself on flirting websites must make her very desperate.
I hope I get straight A's tomorrow that will make things better lol I have a B already in business.
I hope I get straight A's tomorrow that will make things better lol I have a B already in business.
streetyfatb
well I won't start till next year which is a shame, I would love to pack my bags and start a new life. Its quite amusing all these lads using her for sex. Putting pics of herself on flirting websites must make her very desperate.
I hope I get straight A's tomorrow that will make things better lol I have a B already in business.
I hope I get straight A's tomorrow that will make things better lol I have a B already in business.
Ah, that sucks. You're still getting away though! I'm also glad you can see how low she is to be doing what she is.
Good luck with your exam results tomorrow, by the way! If you have MySpace, add me.
never really used myspace, still theres always time to start how do i add you?
streetyfatb
never really used myspace, still theres always time to start how do i add you?
Well if you don't have a MySpace, sign up. If you do, my URL is in my signature so just click on that and add me from the small panel.
I have it so just put myspace.com/bloodred....
can't figure i out anyways cheers anyways mate, just think how I have been treated is ******. Im almost certain she will come crawling back when she comes back from holiday I have just got to learn to say no. My mum wreakons we will get back together cos she will ask me back and I will give in. But given the chance I don't think I want her back!
streetyfatb
Its not right when she says she loves me and to wait so I can talk to her, yet she brushes me off to get a shag. Shes just too easy and not worth the hastle. I have a whole new life at edinburgh uni hopefully, why should I settle for a rough looking girl who is living on the state, with a child without a father, no future prospects, no qualifications, who is a slag. I just feel like my self convidence is rocked, it used to be great I could get girls quite easily (not being big headed). She just wants some rich chap to set her up for life lol. As I have described her, someone like myself hoping to study maths w/management should surely aim higher, thats what im telling myself.
Cheers
Its not right when she says she loves me and to wait so I can talk to her, yet she brushes me off to get a shag. Shes just too easy and not worth the hastle. I have a whole new life at edinburgh uni hopefully, why should I settle for a rough looking girl who is living on the state, with a child without a father, no future prospects, no qualifications, who is a slag. I just feel like my self convidence is rocked, it used to be great I could get girls quite easily (not being big headed). She just wants some rich chap to set her up for life lol. As I have described her, someone like myself hoping to study maths w/management should surely aim higher, thats what im telling myself.
Cheers
That's rich coming from someone who made a thread titled "Where to go for easy sex after serious relationship".
Aww, looks like someone got a taste of their own medicine. Don't like it? Too bad. Sounds like she's better off without you.
maybe I did but I promised myself after that post that I wouldn't sleep with anyone. It just hurts since she said she loves me and we would talk when we get back. You are not in a position to comment on the relationship. I went out to work paid the bills paid for the nights out etc while she did nothing other then get drunk and moan etc.
I put that post up because I was hurting and realised I wanted to sort things out, maybe I am a hypocrite thats just me. She never got the treatment from anyone else that she gets from me, thats why she keeps coming back. I also took on her child, and loved her like my own and got my family to accept them both also, so don't tell me she is better off without me!!!!!!
I put that post up because I was hurting and realised I wanted to sort things out, maybe I am a hypocrite thats just me. She never got the treatment from anyone else that she gets from me, thats why she keeps coming back. I also took on her child, and loved her like my own and got my family to accept them both also, so don't tell me she is better off without me!!!!!!
When a 19 year old student who has 3 jobs 1 f/t and 1 p/t with college and a tight training program 5 nights a week, making a 80 hour week, who pays the bills puts food on the table, clothes on their back, nights out etc etc I am quite offended that someone like more adventurous makes these comments. Especially when she sad at home, didn't cook clean or do anything and got her money from the tax payer!
I would like to explain that if I met someone else, whom I could have a sexual relationship, it perhaps would talk my mind of my x
I would like to explain that if I met someone else, whom I could have a sexual relationship, it perhaps would talk my mind of my x
dont waste your energy explaining yourself seriously save it, you already know, more than anyone here can tell you, that you are better off. Everyone has moments of weakness, And if all you needed was some strangers online to tell you, hell yeah your better off..then honestly, hell yeah, ur better off...get a good nights sleep :P
sorry just 'more adventurous's ' comment frustrated me
streetyfatb
When a 19 year old student who has 3 jobs 1 f/t and 1 p/t with college and a tight training program 5 nights a week, making a 80 hour week, who pays the bills puts food on the table, clothes on their back, nights out etc etc I am quite offended that someone like more adventurous makes these comments. Especially when she sad at home, didn't cook clean or do anything and got her money from the tax payer!
I would like to explain that if I met someone else, whom I could have a sexual relationship, it perhaps would talk my mind of my x
I would like to explain that if I met someone else, whom I could have a sexual relationship, it perhaps would talk my mind of my x
You seem to be forgetting that she has a BABY. Kinda hard to work 80 hours a week then, huh?
If she sleeps with someone else, she's a slag, but if you sleep with someone else, it's okay because it's taking your mind off her? Just admit it, you're bitter because she found easy sex before you did.
no I had the opportunity as well she knows as her mate informed her. It hurts when a baby calls you dad and then u dont see the baby again. And just for ur information she goes out 3 - 4 nights a week and her parents have the baby for the days where she needs to catch up with sleep after taking coke, drink having sex with strangers etc.
So do you think its fair I work so hard for her to waste money and put pressure on me? Do you think its fair her I don't get to see the baby anymore? Do you think its fair for her to tell me she loves me, and I didn't sleep with anyone however angry I was, till I found out about her then I slept with someone in anger earlier!
You are probably just a kid with no experience with anything like this. I don't expect you to understand what its like. Perhaps if u were in my shoes you would be looking at things differently. I showed no signs in other women after we started trying to work things out, I put a deposit on a nice house and everything.
I don't mean to get wound up but perhaps you don't know the full details of the relationship. She asked me to not leave the flat, so she could talk to me when she gets back (as I had purchased an engagement ring). I also promised not to do anything, I assumed she wouldn't either seeing as she begged me to stay in loughborough. Now I find this out, so I told her I would sleep with someone else, I have the offer and so I took it up earlier so yeah im bitter and yes im trying to get one back on her, but i just can't believe she was so sly about it, as im too honest.
So do you think its fair I work so hard for her to waste money and put pressure on me? Do you think its fair her I don't get to see the baby anymore? Do you think its fair for her to tell me she loves me, and I didn't sleep with anyone however angry I was, till I found out about her then I slept with someone in anger earlier!
You are probably just a kid with no experience with anything like this. I don't expect you to understand what its like. Perhaps if u were in my shoes you would be looking at things differently. I showed no signs in other women after we started trying to work things out, I put a deposit on a nice house and everything.
I don't mean to get wound up but perhaps you don't know the full details of the relationship. She asked me to not leave the flat, so she could talk to me when she gets back (as I had purchased an engagement ring). I also promised not to do anything, I assumed she wouldn't either seeing as she begged me to stay in loughborough. Now I find this out, so I told her I would sleep with someone else, I have the offer and so I took it up earlier so yeah im bitter and yes im trying to get one back on her, but i just can't believe she was so sly about it, as im too honest.
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