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Given Up Completely With X

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Reply 20

no I had the opportunity as well she knows as her mate informed her. It hurts when a baby calls you dad and then u dont see the baby again. And just for ur information she goes out 3 - 4 nights a week and her parents have the baby for the days where she needs to catch up with sleep after taking coke, drink having sex with strangers etc.

So do you think its fair I work so hard for her to waste money and put pressure on me? Do you think its fair her I don't get to see the baby anymore? Do you think its fair for her to tell me she loves me, and I didn't sleep with anyone however angry I was, till I found out about her then I slept with someone in anger earlier!

You are probably just a kid with no experience with anything like this. I don't expect you to understand what its like. Perhaps if u were in my shoes you would be looking at things differently. I showed no signs in other women after we started trying to work things out, I put a deposit on a nice house and everything.

I don't mean to get wound up but perhaps you don't know the full details of the relationship. She asked me to not leave the flat, so she could talk to me when she gets back (as I had purchased an engagement ring). I also promised not to do anything, I assumed she wouldn't either seeing as she begged me to stay in loughborough. Now I find this out, so I told her I would sleep with someone else, I have the offer and so I took it up earlier so yeah im bitter and yes im trying to get one back on her, but i just can't believe she was so sly about it, as im too honest.

Reply 21

According to your other posts, it was YOU who broke up with HER - not once, but twice. The last time being five months ago. And you've both been seeing other people since then. How long is she expected to remain celibate after you broke up with her?

So you've been stringing her along for 18 months, and now you've realised that you can't have your cake and eat it too forever? Poor baby.