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Dumped because I'm boring

MSN - 8 months chatting, oh philip you make me laugh ETC... Oh philip when will you come to france. I can book a flight to paris when i come back from america, how many days shall i stay "oh 3 days if you can"

1st night we go to a boat and sit on it because she wants to then we go home.

She says ok i come tommorrow

She doesnt turn up.

Weeks later she doesnt talk much.

That was JAnuary

Today she said "you were a good friend but you make me feel bad because you are boring"

Well thanks

Reply 1

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3

Well, thats gotta hurt. I guess that's one of the pitfalls of internet relationships, you never actually know if you get on outside of the internet. Don't take it too personally, some people just don't connect. Move on and maybe stick to people you know first next time. :smile:

Reply 2

pikaboo

13

Oh well. What is one girl's idea of boring is another girl's idea of a sweetheart. Try again another day

Reply 3

HereFishyFishy

13

What a horrible girl. Block her and find somebody you have more in common with.

Reply 4

Philbill

OP

I know and considering that i took a flight the day after just to see her. Personally if someone has a good heart and goes through trouble of getting to see them then they should be classed as a friend at least. I would be friends with ones who are kind regardless of whether they are boring or not.

Reply 5

username47781

20

Ignore her and find someone who is more appreciative.

Reply 6

FoeGeddaBowDeet

Well, you were a bit of a prat to book a 3 day trip to France to be with a gi9l who you only knew from the internet. First impressions mean a lot and I guess you didn't impress.

Reply 7

Philbill

OP

Yes and i messaged her yesterday for the 1st time to say sorry and why. and she said it wasnt just the chain letter but that other thing i just mentioned.

Reply 8

tetrahydrocannabinol.

10

wesetters

Is this the same girl ? :s-smilie:

http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?p=7931594

Weird...

Reply 9

Philbill

OP

Thanks for the little bits of help, I am going to email Edith Bowman aswell to see if she will say anything for me but thanks to those who helped it helped me :smile:

Reply 10

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3

The DJ? Do you really want to be made a laughing stock on national radio? You acted like a bit of a mug, telling millions of people about it isn't exactly going to make it go away...

Reply 11

Yellowmarshmellow

Some people really aren't worth it, you can do better.

Reply 12

Profesh

20

Pathetic.

Reply 13

Purple

18

I cant believe she made you go to France for 3 days to see her and then left you in your hotel room for 2 of them :s:

Reply 14

Profesh

20

kirstinx

I cant believe she made you go to France for 3 days to see her and then left you in your hotel room for 2 of them :s:

I can't believe that, apparently, they took such pains to convene without first having even conversed via telephone.

Reply 15

Profesh

20

3232

Well, thats gotta hurt. I guess that's one of the pitfalls of internet relationships, you never actually know if you get on outside of the internet. Don't take it too personally, some people just don't connect. Move on and maybe stick to people you know first next time. :smile:

Yeah. That's why I try to talk to them beforehand.

Did you know that Alexander Graham Bell invented the telephone in 1875? Apparently, this is a fact which has escaped the notice of a (surprising) number of people.

Reply 16

Bubblebee

15

Don't worry, I'm sure that tomorrow you will find someone new to obsess over... perhaps a woman who averted her eyes from you as you walked up to her weilding a knife... or a child that ran away when you offered them sweets and told them to 'pet your little bunny'.

Reply 17

arminvanpite

14

What a nutcase (her, not you).

Reply 18

Sticky

Philbill

I know and considering that i took a flight the day after just to see her. Personally if someone has a good heart and goes through trouble of getting to see them then they should be classed as a friend at least. I would be friends with ones who are kind regardless of whether they are boring or not.

I had a quick look at your other thread.

If this is all true (it's quite hard to believe as it's pretty nuts!), then you really are better off just leaving things as they are.

Mate, you have to realise that there are loads of girls (and guys) who are complete users, spoilt little kids who are used to getting what they want and treating people like ****. The worst part is that they probably will get away with treating people like that for most of their life. They'll never be happy, will never connect with anyone properly but that's not your problem.

As much as I think you were extremely naive and gullible for falling into her trap (she clearly just wants attention and depending on her mood, will use guys more or less), that is no way to treat someone who takes a flight to see you. Even if a girl looked like the Hunchback of Notre Dame, I'd still see her. Obviously, you try to make it clear that you only want to be friends, which she clearly didn't.

All in all, this sounds like a girl who has no respect for people in general (e.g. her mother, you...) and thinks she can get away with treating people like **** and behave as she pleases. She probably goes through people like you and I go through shirts.

I used to fall for this type of girl loads but thank God now, I find lack of respect the most unattractive trait in a girl, and in a person in general.

Reply 19

silverbolt

19

maybe you are boring.

Next time get with a girl in real life

Dumped because I'm boring

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