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    Sorry for the length!Y11 I was ill, so despite most of my school continuing onto the local college, I didn't know that many people when I started. I befriended a girl in one of my subjects who had previously attended the same school, however had moved away and came back.She introduced me to her 2 twin mates and I gradually spent more and more time with them.She then starts dating twin #1. I spend most of my time with them at college but they're all talented sporty people so spend most free time at competitions etc.

    Now we're 1/2 term into 2nd year, I'd consider all 3 of them my closest friends. However I know I'm really into twin #2, and I have no idea what to do about it. Problems are:

    - He's recently faced family bereavement. Had a lot on his plate.- His life is driven by sport, spends all free time training/competing.- All 4 of us are really good friends, I don't want to 'rock the boat' I'm really like him, but I have no idea if he feels the same way, I thought he's been getting more flirty lately but it seems on/off. But over the last few weeks we've been speaking on a daily basis, more than I do with the girl!I don't know what to do, I'm so happy at the moment and don't wanna mess things up. But at the same time I know I act stupid whenever I'm around him and he's going to notice! What do I do? Risk saying something or leave it, and how would I even bring it up?!
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    I wouldn't really ask out a friend when you're all in a close group of friends unless you were 100% sure he likes you. Maybe flirt back a bit and see how he responds.
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