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    Going to Uni next year and whilst i'm not too bothered about going to university a virgin, i do worry about lack of experience. Whenever i've been in a situation where i'm about to get more intimate with a guy (pass kissing) i get really uncomfortable and shy away and i don't know why. I want to get more comfortable around boys but i never really get any attention on social media etc so im not used to dating or talking never mind anything more. Basically i just want to put myself out there more but how do i do that without being a) a complete slut or b) a bumbling fridget idiot . Struggles of being a teenager i know
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    I don't think you'd be a "complete slut" as you put it. I'm not sure what your interests are, how about join societies, attend events, etc... That way you'll get to meet new people in a calm environment (depends on the event though).

    You could go clubbing too, you're very likely to get hit on if you're a girl.
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