Living with a potential girlfriend at uni - advice please!!Watch
To answer your question, the trouble is that quite a lot might happen between now and when you move into the accommodation next year. Some possible scenarios are:
- You start a relationship now which lasts until next year
- You start a relationship now but in six months develop a mutual attraction with someone else; relationship with Abi is over, Abi not happy.
- You start a relationship now but in six months Abi develops a mutual attraction with someone else; relationship with Abi is over, you not happy.
- You ask Abi out, she says no, you not happy.
You've gone past the point of being just friends now and in most of the scenarios above living together is likely to be awkward so I think you need to give some serious though to living elsewhere. If things do work out with Abi you could still visit lots but at least you'll both have a bit of space if things don't work out.