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    My bf smokes quite a lot of weed which although I'm not a massive fan of him doing it I let it pass however early in on the relationship when he was really drunk one night at a party he took cocaine and I was really upset about it as I'm not a drugs fan and want him to be safe. He promised not to do it again and to my knowledge hasn't. However the other night when he was out he tried to get some, he wasn't successful and the only reason I know he tried is because I read his messages which I know I shouldn't. But now I don't know what to do because although he didn't take any he intended to and so broke his promise and my trust and now I don't know whether to trust him on other nights out (some of the work people he hangs out with are big into drugs) and whether I should say something but not mention that I read his messages... I just feel betrayed and I know he was drunk but he should still honour his promise
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    My bf smokes quite a lot of weed which although I'm not a massive fan of him doing it I let it pass however early in on the relationship when he was really drunk one night at a party he took cocaine and I was really upset about it as I'm not a drugs fan and want him to be safe. He promised not to do it again and to my knowledge hasn't. However the other night when he was out he tried to get some, he wasn't successful and the only reason I know he tried is because I read his messages which I know I shouldn't. But now I don't know what to do because although he didn't take any he intended to and so broke his promise and my trust and now I don't know whether to trust him on other nights out (some of the work people he hangs out with are big into drugs) and whether I should say something but not mention that I read his messages... I just feel betrayed and I know he was drunk but he should still honour his promise
    Nope, you can't change a dude especially one like that.
 
 
 
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