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    This website essentially ruined my life.

    Three years ago in 2013 I was essentially one of the most academic and high achieving people you could imagine.

    Signed up for this website because I wanted to know what A - Level subjects were taking were correct to get into a top university (which is a pipe dream now might I add) and gradually got more and more addicted to it because of the current year threads and the russell group hurt heal threads.

    Furthermore I had lost all of my friends as they had gone to college so I kind, of 'replaced' my old friends with my new found 'tar friends' because I was feeling lonely.

    As TSR is a study related website whenever I was on TSR it essentially felt like I was studying and it didn't feel like I was procrastinating and wasting my life.

    Anyway, because of all the procrastinating I did though TSR I essentially developed full on clinical depression, which lead to me not doing as dell in my A - Levels as I would have liked.

    Fast forward three years and I am still depressed, and am now taking a gap year and am hoping to 'cure' my depression caused by TSR.

    If I didn't go on this website I wouldn't be depressed and I would be much, much happier.

    Also what university you go to really doesn't make a difference in the long term. The people on this website ridiculing others because of what university they are planning to go to have absolutely no idea how the real world works. (Comparing myself to these individuals is probably what made me depressed in the first place)
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    So it's your own fault?
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    Also I'm almost 20, I've had no relationships, essentially all my prospects are gone
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    Get off TSR is probably a good start
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    Do you perhaps think the first step in resolving your position might be taking responsibility for your own free choices rather than pointing a finger of blame at the website and those who post on it?
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    (Original post by OhGod)
    This website essentially ruined my life.

    Three years ago in 2013 I was essentially one of the most academic and high achieving people you could imagine.

    Signed up for this website because I wanted to know what A - Level subjects were taking were correct to get into a top university (which is a pipe dream now might I add) and gradually got more and more addicted to it because of the current year threads and the russell group hurt heal threads.

    Furthermore I had lost all of my friends as they had gone to college so I kind, of 'replaced' my old friends with my new found 'tar friends' because I was feeling lonely.

    As TSR is a study related website whenever I was on TSR it essentially felt like I was studying and it didn't feel like I was procrastinating and wasting my life.

    Anyway, because of all the procrastinating I did though TSR I essentially developed full on clinical depression, which lead to me not doing as dell in my A - Levels as I would have liked.

    Fast forward three years and I am still depressed, and am now taking a gap year and am hoping to 'cure' my depression caused by TSR.

    If I didn't go on this website I wouldn't be depressed and I would be much, much happier.

    Also what university you go to really doesn't make a difference in the long term. The people on this website ridiculing others because of what university they are planning to go to have absolutely no idea how the real world works. (Comparing myself to these individuals is probably what made me depressed in the first place)
    No you ruined your life, joined forcing you to be on here
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    (Original post by Reality Check)
    pointing a finger of blame at the website and those who post on it?
    I never blamed the website.
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    (Original post by OhGod)
    This website essentially ruined my life.
    (Original post by OhGod)
    I never blamed the website.
    Given the subject is 'this website', the verb is 'ruined' and the object is 'my life', I struggle to understand how you would claim that you 'didn't blame the website'.
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    its a ****in website - no one forces you to log in every day smh
    does anyone even take responsibility for anything anymore omg :lol: -_- the end is nigh
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    (Original post by AngryRedhead)
    Lmao 2/10 troll
    I can assure you that I'm not trolling.
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    I'd suggest you consider the possibility that you were procrastinating because you were becoming depressed (which is not unusual), rather than the other way around.
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    (Original post by z33)
    its a ****in website - no one forces you to log in every day smh
    does anyone even take responsibility for anything anymore omg :lol: -_- the end is nigh
    I wish someone had told me that three years ago.
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    (Original post by markovchain17)
    Get off TSR is probably a good start
    This is my first post in about 2 months.
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    (Original post by Reality Check)
    Given the subject is 'this website', the verb is 'ruined' and the object is 'my life', I struggle to understand how you would claim that you 'didn't blame the website'.
    I didn't realise that the website would make me procrastinate so much.
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    (Original post by Persipan)
    I'd suggest you consider the possibility that you were procrastinating because you were becoming depressed (which is not unusual), rather than the other way around.
    That probably is the case. Thanks for the response.
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    (Original post by OhGod)
    I didn't realise that the website would make me procrastinate so much.
    A packet of hobnobs and a cup of tea can make you procrastinate? Would they be similarly guilty? Or is it actually that procrastination is a fact of life - we ALL procrastinate. Rather than cast around for something to blame, most of us try to stay on topic. Not easy, but then nothing worthwhile in life is.
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    (Original post by Reality Check)
    A packet of hobnobs and a cup of tea can make you procrastinate? Would they be similarly guilty?
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    (Original post by OhGod)
    This website essentially ruined my life.

    Three years ago in 2013 I was essentially one of the most academic and high achieving people you could imagine.

    Signed up for this website because I wanted to know what A - Level subjects were taking were correct to get into a top university (which is a pipe dream now might I add) and gradually got more and more addicted to it because of the current year threads and the russell group hurt heal threads.

    Furthermore I had lost all of my friends as they had gone to college so I kind, of 'replaced' my old friends with my new found 'tar friends' because I was feeling lonely.

    As TSR is a study related website whenever I was on TSR it essentially felt like I was studying and it didn't feel like I was procrastinating and wasting my life.

    Anyway, because of all the procrastinating I did though TSR I essentially developed full on clinical depression, which lead to me not doing as dell in my A - Levels as I would have liked.

    Fast forward three years and I am still depressed, and am now taking a gap year and am hoping to 'cure' my depression caused by TSR.

    If I didn't go on this website I wouldn't be depressed and I would be much, much happier.

    Also what university you go to really doesn't make a difference in the long term. The people on this website ridiculing others because of what university they are planning to go to have absolutely no idea how the real world works. (Comparing myself to these individuals is probably what made me depressed in the first place)
    Dont worry scrub life has to get better eh?

    On a brighter not have you seen the graphics on Battlefield 1? Blimey! Dont worry about life being ****, soon gaming will be so beautiful and encompassing you wont even need to engage in pesky, advisory forums like TSR (or society for that matter).
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    (Original post by DIN-NARYU-FARORE)
    Dont worry scrub life has to get better eh?

    On a brighter not have you seen the graphics on Battlefield 1? Blimey! Dont worry about life being ****, soon gaming will be so beautiful and encompassing you wont even need to engage in pesky, advisory forums like TSR (or society for that matter).
    Thanks for cheering me up,
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    (Original post by Reality Check)
    Rather than cast around for something to blame, most of us try to stay on topic. Not easy, but then nothing worthwhile in life is.
    Thank you for the response
 
 
 
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