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    My boyfriend is being a lot unloving and honestly making me boil my eyes out... he is very busy this week.... with collage.... last night he didn't send me a text.... no texts at all his reason was I'm tired so this morning I got mad. At collage I message him being all sweet saying I love you etc. I don't even get I love you too Just him on about some song.... he explains I hurt him etc. so I say sorry... and explain I didn't mean to a ton of time so at lunch he texts me.... say ok to my i love you... i was sending him loads of text saying are you ok etc. he puts WHAT DO YOU WANT FFS... after that I was honestly hurt.... he usually says bye he didn't.... what do you think is wrong? should I give him the cold shoulder or I'm I wrong?
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    (Original post by Daniella.hancoc)
    My boyfriend is being a lot unloving and honestly making me boil my eyes out... he is very busy this week.... with collage.... last night he didn't send me a text.... no texts at all his reason was I'm tired so this morning I got mad. At collage I message him being all sweet saying I love you etc. I don't even get I love you too Just him on about some song.... he explains I hurt him etc. so I say sorry... and explain I didn't mean to a ton of time so at lunch he texts me.... say ok to my i love you... i was sending him loads of text saying are you ok etc. he puts WHAT DO YOU WANT FFS... after that I was honestly hurt.... he usually says bye he didn't.... what do you think is wrong? should I give him the cold shoulder or I'm I wrong?
    If you text the way you have written the post, no wonder he's patching your messages poor guy


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    I have no idea what you're trying to say but from this part -

    "he explains I hurt him etc."

    I would assume he's upset with you and the consent texts are not helping. If anything it's making it worse. It's just showing you don't really care if he is upset. You're more interested in how he's treating you then his feelings... and yes men do have them.

    Give him space. If you don't you'll lose him.
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    It's college*. You aren't 12, so don't play games. If you feel like he is neglecting you then talk to him. Communication is key.
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    Stop being so needy and give him some space to breathe. You're suffocating him
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    Not everyone is on their phone 24/7, people forget to check them or can't be bothered with them. He didn't want to text you back after a long day because it'd lead to a long-ass conversation that he didn't want to deal with when he was tired. That's totally understandable, but you seem to think he has to be on his toes, ready to reply to you as soon as you send him a message.
 
 
 
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