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    It seems like some men have no standards.. I was wearing a massive jumper, jeans, hair up and a mess, no makeup yet he was still flirting with me and being kind of sexual. I didn't reciprocate but he didn't get the hint and carried on. So I guess it's true that it's ALOT easier for girls to sleep with guys that the other way around?
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    From title men being desperate to it's easier for girls to sleep with guys?
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    As you said, some men are like that. No one here can do anything about that, you just need to ignore them and carry on with what you're doing.
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    Well if we're being sexist, let's go all in shall we?

    It's easier for girls to sleep with boys because boys are up front, girls want to leave hints and say the opposite. "No means no, except when it means yes, and if you don't know which no means yes, that's your own fault mister". Reward comes to the 'persistent'. If no means yes and the guy thought it meant no, then the guy missed the obvious 'signs' or was too much of a gentleman and frankly will struggle to get into a relationship or one night stand. If no means no and the guy thought it meant yes, then he's a pervert/rapist/creep, but it will be a successful approach far too often. This is probably what happened here, your no meant no, but in his experience it meant yes, but who knows what it means?

    As for why a guy would go for a lady without makeup... what do you think? You think makeup is some magical thing that makes girls bangable? Some women look better or just fine without makeup, either because they're hot enough, don't have a skin condition, or when they do wear makeup they look like a clown that's rolled around in a landfill. It's a bit like 3D glasses - it isn't always a better way of seeing a movie, just a different way.

    Of course, to end on a good old sexist note, I'm aware this is probably a sly attempt at fishing for compliments getting people to say "well obviously you're pretty even looking a mess". We know how you girls like to say you're so ugly or post vague Facebook statuses, so your girl friends rush to compliment how pretty you really are or how great you are etc. "I'm so fat and ugly" said the skinny amateur model who literally gets slobbered over every weekend.

    I suppose you also think all men are pervert jerks, hence this thread. "Why aren't there any sweet guys?" There are, you just ignore them for the persistent perverts and 'bad boys' with a supposedly soft inside and 7 inch member which is actually 5.5 but hey don't let that porno you watch get in the way of reality or your bucket.

    I hope that covers everything m'lady.
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    (Original post by Neverdie)
    Well if we're being sexist, let's go all in shall we?

    It's easier for girls to sleep with boys because boys are up front, girls want to leave hints and say the opposite. "No means no, except when it means yes, and if you don't know which no means yes, that's your own fault mister". Reward comes to the 'persistent'. If no means yes and the guy thought it meant no, then the guy missed the obvious 'signs' or was too much of a gentleman and frankly will struggle to get into a relationship or one night stand. If no means no and the guy thought it meant yes, then he's a pervert/rapist/creep, but it will be a successful approach far too often. This is probably what happened here, your no meant no, but in his experience it meant yes, but who knows what it means?

    As for why a guy would go for a lady without makeup... what do you think? You think makeup is some magical thing that makes girls bangable? Some women look better or just fine without makeup, either because they're hot enough, don't have a skin condition, or when they do wear makeup they look like a clown that's rolled around in a landfill. It's a bit like 3D glasses - it isn't always a better way of seeing a movie, just a different way.

    Of course, to end on a good old sexist note, I'm aware this is probably a sly attempt at fishing for compliments getting people to say "well obviously you're pretty even looking a mess". We know how you girls like to say you're so ugly or post vague Facebook statuses, so your girl friends rush to compliment how pretty you really are or how great you are etc. "I'm so fat and ugly" said the skinny amateur model who literally gets slobbered over every weekend.

    I suppose you also think all men are pervert jerks, hence this thread. "Why aren't there any sweet guys?" There are, you just ignore them for the persistent perverts and 'bad boys' with a supposedly soft inside and 7 inch member which is actually 5.5 but hey don't let that porno you watch get in the way of reality or your bucket.

    I hope that covers everything m'lady.
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    Well there are ultimately only three legitimate ways for men to find women. Online Dating (flawed and massively skewed in favour of women), the workplace (could use the creep argument there), school or the club. You can carry on the single routine for many years but it gets to a point where as you approach your third decade you start to think why I am subsidising single mothers when my gentle attempts to start a non sex relationship are rebuffed. Personally I think arranged marriages would benefit everyone but good luck getting westerners to breed in a civilised way, that lot would much rather bail out half black single mothers than actually help the reproductive futures of hard working respectable white folk.
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    So girls like you can have an ego boost and post about it on an online forum
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    If you listen very closely, you can hear a pin drop...
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    You are making it into a big deal, at least the guy approached you without make up and still thought you were pretty. take it as a compliment
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    Bateman's principle: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bateman%27s_principle
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    It seems like some men have no standards.. I was wearing a massive jumper, jeans, hair up and a mess, no makeup yet he was still flirting with me and being kind of sexual. I didn't reciprocate but he didn't get the hint and carried on. So I guess it's true that it's ALOT easier for girls to sleep with guys that the other way around?
    Wow. A bloke found your natural beauty attractive and apparently that means he didn't have standards. What.
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    Girls are just as "desperate" in the sense that they too have primitive desires etc, they're just not as overt and tactless as men,
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    (Original post by Pinkberry_y)
    So girls like you can have an ego boost and post about it on an online forum
    Nailed it.
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    I think it's nice that some guy thought you were attractive despite you not feeling like you'd dressed your best.

    Hopefully you told him you're not interested and he leaves you be. Don't expect him to know if you haven't had some kind of communication though, men can't read your mind.
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    The thought of someone being attracted to something so utterly repulsive is a remarkably grotesque notion.
 
 
 
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