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    Ok, I didnt press quote and it was ages back, but I really liked the post about writing names in an album to remember names...I am taken with the idea of a 'conquests album' containing not just names and numbers but photographs, bra size, number of times, rating out of ten etc etc ... OK im just trying to lighten the mood (but admit it, some of you will put this into practice...) because I think this has gone off topic. Whether he is a slut, or has diseases, or the girl was snooping or whatever is irrelevant, this is about how his behaviour towards sex and his sexual history has made his current gf feel, and nothing can fix that, imo she just has to decide if this is something she is ok with or not!
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    (Original post by Music_Enthusiast)
    Is your name really Sabina?
    yeah, why? lol
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    Sabina the teenage *****, i mean witch :rolleyes:
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    haha, yeah i've never heard that before
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    (Original post by sabby ohh)
    haha, yeah i've never heard that before
    well you have now.

    is that you in the picture? You've got a pretty cool hairstyle and colour if it is.
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    (Original post by white_haired_wizard)
    well you have now.

    is that you in the picture? You've got a pretty cool hairstyle and colour if it is.
    yeah thats me. thankss
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    (Original post by podiatrist)
    Hi... Whilst looking for some post-it notes earlier round my b/f's, I came across a list of womens names with my name at the bottom! We have only been seeing each other 6 weeks but I cant help feeling that I am just another number on his list... He is at work at the mo so cant talk to him about it.. Why do men do this?? !
    What should I say to him, if anything? I feel really *****y, I thought he was different to other guys!

    p.s I am number 32 (he told me he had slept with less than 20)
    Haha I havn't read the list of the thread, but what loser makes a list?
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    i really do think people are looking far too deeply into all this.
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    (Original post by philgw)
    Haha I havn't read the list of the thread, but what loser makes a list?
    like a roll-call, akin to a class register. A bit weird, yes.
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    I'd dump him personally. If he's making a list of conquests he can't really be that caring. It's just something to big himself up about to other guys.
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    (Original post by JosephineM)
    32 girls that he .....kissed? No hun. Sorry.
    Someone isn't too sharp today...

    No, the point is he is unlikely to have said he'd slept with less than 20 girls if he had been with more than 30. I know few girls who would feel less attracted (take note of the choice of words) to their boyfriend if he had slept with a lot of women. I've had exes make a deal about the number I'd been with but it was always to be reassured, never because they felt like we should end things.
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    (Original post by white_haired_wizard)
    Sabina
    That's a good word to rhyme with Vagina next time you write a poem.
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    (Original post by Sticky)
    That's a good word to rhyme with Vagina next time you write a poem.
    i'll bear that in mind, the next time i write a poem. Because i do write poems on a regular basis.
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    (Original post by Sticky)
    That's a good word to rhyme with Vagina next time you write a poem.
    I would absolutely love it if someone rhymed my name with Vagina in a poem. No really, I would.
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    you'd be in privileged position Sabina.
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    Wow, really off topic now.
    I remember that programme tho about the teenage witch, was kinda cool.

    But on the original subject matter, some people do make lists, but I second that they should never let that list be seen by anyone, especially not their current lover! But just talk to him about it, seems like everything is going on very well for the two of you.

    For a funny tale, here's how this guy I was seeing told me how many conquests he had had before me: we were in bed together, then he rolled over and said hi number 36. I said what, and he said well you're the 36th person ive slept with. What a nice guy.
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    WOW he was insensitive. I hope you kicked him out of bed sharpish??
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    Blimey 32?! My list would be ...well a name.

    You should confront him about it though, about the lying (about numbers) and the whole idea of "conquests"...
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    (Original post by invisible_gal)
    Wow, really off topic now.
    I remember that programme tho about the teenage witch, was kinda cool.

    But on the original subject matter, some people do make lists, but I second that they should never let that list be seen by anyone, especially not their current lover! But just talk to him about it, seems like everything is going on very well for the two of you.

    For a funny tale, here's how this guy I was seeing told me how many conquests he had had before me: we were in bed together, then he rolled over and said hi number 36. I said what, and he said well you're the 36th person ive slept with. What a nice guy.
    Oh dear oh dear, personally I stick with the classic notches on the bedposts. We have sex, we finish, I get out the hacksaw...
 
 
 
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