Do you know any unpopular attractive people?Watch
I am interested in the relationship between one's outward appearance and how others treat them and have noticed that I know of no attractive person who has few 'friends', in the Facebook sense of the word. Do attractive people who don't have masses of people wanting to associate themselves with them exist?
Everyone has their own type, typical attractive people normally don't notice they are attractive they just think their looking after themselves better.
You had bad memories with attractive people didn't you.
Then when I look at locals around here in their late 30's-50's who have extremely few friends, it always tends to be those in the top or bottom 5% looks wise. Most in those top 5% still keep that *****y persona.
I think it's personality that makes you more popular over appearance. If you are funny, witty and could hold interesting conversations than looks won't hold any importance in that matter. However if you are attractive with social anxiety, then people may notice you at first but then they will lose interest very quickly
I suppose perhaps you may not make people as aware of you as other people do of themselves. And I am not surprised if you are not THE most popular person in the world as the chances of that are quite slim. Do you have a healthy number of people who sit next to you in lectures? About how many Facebook friends do you have?
Also the one true measure of how attractive you are is how many matches you have on Tinder. Or at least it would give someone a better indication than 'people say I am'. I am not calling you a liar or anything in case it reads like that I am just trying to get a better idea of how below par (if at all) you may be performing on the popularity front for your appearance.
251 Facebook friends.
I sit next to the same three people in lectures.