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    OK there was a member on here called "herecomestrouble".

    I had a silly teenage crush on her (OK i admit). Then we became friends. Or so I thought,

    But I just think (maybe it was down to her personality disorder(s). she was taking me for an absolute fool and I was naive enough to believe all the PMs and cards and emails she sent me saying how much of a good friend she was to me.

    She was also very much in with two notorious trolls at the time, (can't remember their exact username) so I think they were her co-conspirators.

    The last I heard from her was I sent her an email (she never spoke to me on the phone or had a desire to meet me despite arranging to meet me in her uni city (but she didn't respond to any of my PMs the night before, so, I believe she just wanted me to go all that way amnd just laugh at my expense when she didn't show up).

    She was dating a guy off here (poor *******) but I believe they've since split.

    She's also a doctor now I hear, and people of her nature shouldn't be anywhere near the medical profession (but that's by the by).

    I just want closure more than anything, an apology....why did she feel she could treat me that way, (especially since I was emotionally fragile at the time?)

    If someone could draw her attention to this thread then :thumbsup), as long as she gets the message that sleeping dogs wont lie until she relaises what she's done and so she won't do it to others (there are other "victims" on here btw.

    Cheers!
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    Wow how long ago would this have been? Last thread she made was in 2012, I'm guessing that's when she was last active. I highly doubt she'll come back to TSR and do the same thing again (if it's true).

    I don't think there's much you can do but move on, but why do you want closure after so many years? It sounds like after all this time you still have feelings for her or are still bothered with the whole thing.

    It can happen anywhere tbh, though if people on TSR want to meet up, then it's probably best if you're connected on several social media platforms and have seen each other (Skype video call, Facetime, etc...) to make sure they're not a catfish.
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    Wow how long ago would this have been? Last thread she made was in 2012, I'm guessing that's when she was last active. I highly doubt she'll come back to TSR and do the same thing again (if it's true).

    I don't think there's much you can do but move on, but why do you want closure after so many years? It sounds like after all this time you still have feelings for her or are still bothered with the whole thing.

    It can happen anywhere tbh, though if people on TSR want to meet up, then it's probably best if you're connected on several social media platforms and have seen each other (Skype video call, Facetime, etc...) to make sure they're not a catfish.
    i never did have true amorous feelings, certainly platonic ones, yeah the horse has bolted but idk
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    You expect answers from someone who left a long time ago. If she played you, then what makes you think she will bother trying to explain herself to you and make you feel better? Not going to happen imo.
 
 
 
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