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    Should I go back out with my ex even if I don't love him?
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    This is a no brainer really. Of course you shouldn't, you don't love him so why force yourself?
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    (Original post by VioletBlueGreen)
    Should I go back out with my ex even if I don't love him?
    Why would you go back to him then?
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    (Original post by Illimitable)
    Why would you go back to him then?
    Because he believes we can make it work this time and my friend agrees with him.
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    (Original post by VioletBlueGreen)
    Because he believes we can make it work this time and my friend agrees with him.
    But you don't love him. If your with somebody you don't love you probably don't have a future with them.
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    (Original post by VioletBlueGreen)
    Because he believes we can make it work this time and my friend agrees with him.
    just because your friends and he believe you should go out again doesn't mean you should. in fact, I really think you should not. don't let them pressure you into an unwanted relationship, you broke up with him for a reason in the first place, remember that reason
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    No point because u don't love him..
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    (Original post by Illimitable)
    But you don't love him. If your with somebody you don't love you probably don't have a future with them.
    Okay but then how do I explain that to my friend? She's convinced that we could work out and that I could grow to love him and have a future with him. Is that possible? To learn to love him?
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    (Original post by VioletBlueGreen)
    Okay but then how do I explain that to my friend? She's convinced that we could work out and that I could grow to love him and have a future with him. Is that possible? To learn to love him?
    If you simply don't love him I seriously doubt somehow you will learn to love him.
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    No point because u don't love him..
    That's what I said to my friend but she doesn't believe me.
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    (Original post by Illimitable)
    If you simply don't love him I seriously doubt somehow you will learn to love him.
    Then how do I get them both to stop pestering me about it and bothering me?
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    This is a no brainer really. Of course you shouldn't, you don't love him so why force yourself?
    I'm rather fed up of him asking me and my friend telling me that I should say yes and go out with him
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    (Original post by VioletBlueGreen)
    Then how do I get them both to stop pestering me about it and bothering me?
    Straight up tell them that you don't love him and it won't be possible to love him over time.
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    (Original post by VioletBlueGreen)
    I'm rather fed up of him asking me and my friend telling me that I should say yes and go out with him
    Block him then, you should have done this as soon as you broke up. Stop listening to your friends and make your own decisions.
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    Not to be. That is the answer.
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    (Original post by Illimitable)
    Straight up tell them that you don't love him and it won't be possible to love him over time.
    He knows I don't love him but i'll give the second point a go.
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    (Original post by VioletBlueGreen)
    That's what I said to my friend but she doesn't believe me.
    Well you don't need to prove it to her. It's nothing to do with her it's you in the relationship
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    (Original post by UWS)
    Block him then, you should have done this as soon as you broke up. Stop listening to your friends and make your own decisions.
    We broke up on what I thought was good terms and remained what I believed was good friends afterwards. It was my decision to break up with him but with the hassle its created its starting to feel like the wrong decision to have made.
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    No point because u don't love him..
    (Original post by VioletBlueGreen)
    Should I go back out with my ex even if I don't love him?
    More importantly why is google plus giving you relationship advice
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    (Original post by CorpusLuteum)
    More importantly why is google plus giving you relationship advice
    Haha lol says a Corpus Luteum
 
 
 
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