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I've been in a relationship for the past 4 years, although he's a nice guy and treats me right. I feel like he is too sensitive and I wouldn't exactly feel safe if I was out late with him. There is this other boy that I have been speaking to for TIME and he's always been there for me. Is it bad that I am having theses feelings? should I stay in a relationship with my boyfriend of 4 years?
FYI I am 17
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dump your boyfriend and go for the other guy obviously
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(Original post by INTERNET-HO)
I've been in a relationship for the past 4 years, although he's a nice guy and treats me right. I feel like he is too sensitive and I wouldn't exactly feel safe if I was out late with him. There is this other boy that I have been speaking to for TIME and he's always been there for me. Is it bad that I am having theses feelings? should I stay in a relationship with my boyfriend of 4 years?
FYI I am 17
If you don't feel safe with your current boyfriend, that's not a good sign! Maybe you should take a little break from the relationship and see how he reacts to this. If he gets angry, then you definitely should go, because that means that he doesn't care about what you want... If you take the break, see where things go.

My advice is to go with your gut.
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(Original post by jessn122)
If you don't feel safe with your current boyfriend, that's not a good sign! Maybe you should take a little break from the relationship and see how he reacts to this. If he gets angry, then you definitely should go, because that means that he doesn't care about what you want... If you take the break, see where things go.

My advice is to go with your gut.
I think you misunderstood what she said, she's saying that she doesn't feel like her BF would be able to stand up for her or defend her on a night out not that he'll hurt her.
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i think one of the reasons of having a relationship is to feel safe because your bf will always take care of you. but if you do not feel safe in your relationship, then why should you stay?


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Do you live in Syria or something that you need to be kept safe?

Don't try to justify it. You've been speaking to another guy behind his back. Stop playing victim.
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Instead of hiding your feelings, I think you should talk to him and clear things between both of you, Tell him how you feel, tell him about the guy you're having "those feelings" for.

I dont see a point of you hiding all those feelings from him then complaining he's not protecting you but the other guy is. Tbh every guy is different and behaves differently, just because one guy is slightly more confident than the other that doesn't mean that your bf can't protect you. He knows the place where you guys are is safe and doesn't see the need to be your body guard constantly... You're with a guy purely based on love not to keep you safe 24/7 when the right time comes he'll be the first to back you up and make sure that no one lays even a finger on you...
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You have been with your bf since you were 13 i wouldnt be surprised if your feelings have changed over time that was something that jumped out at me than you saying you dont feel your bf would protect you at night.
Do you love him can you imagine being with him forever if not then end it and pursue this other relationship don't stay with someone that will make you unhappy and unfulfilled.
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