I've attended two high schools. At both schools the hottest guys were gingers. You say gingers are unattractive. My best friend is a redhead and her twin brother is really cute. My friend is so insecure about her red hair. I'm okay with HER saying she wouldn't date a redhead. She still finds them attractive, she just says she always feels like she's related to them whenever she sees one.
Anyways most of what I want to say has already been said. But I guess I have some advice and personal experience. I don't really date...No that's not right. I meet a guy he likes me, I like him and we hang out and text for a while, lots of flirting.. But that's it. So I've never had a proper boyfriend, unless you count sixth grade.
I'm seventeen and in the last year I haven't really liked anyone. I guess I'm more focused on getting out of high school.
Here's some advice: change the attitude and the way you treat people. You claim your really nice but from your posts I can't be too sure. It's not about how you act in front of others, it's about what you say about them later. Don't worry too much about finding someone, always happens to me when I least expect it. Like a guy from my past started texting me again. Completely out of nowhere. You just have to be patient and learn how to handle being single. Don't be the girl who depends on the affections of others to live.
I may post something more later if something new happens. But until then Don't worry about it.