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I got called ugly for the first time watch

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    Ive always been called attractive so this is the first time ive been called ugly. so my friend sent a guy a picture of my trying to set me up -_- and he replied 'err' implying that i was ugly. then he said its because im not wearing makeup (i was wearing it, but minimal) this has made me think do i need to wear more makeup in real life :cry:

    this is the first time this has happened. its made me wonder if i really i am ugly and everyone just lies to me to my face.

    guys never call a girl ugly it shoots their self confidence down to 0
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    i feel like crying
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    Not everyone in the world is going to think you're beautiful, hard truth ! However, one person's opinion should not determine how you think about yourself as a whole. He obviously isn't the right person for you, dust yourself off and carry on doll !!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    i feel like crying
    Get a grip.
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    Relax

    Hold yourself in better esteem than breaking down when one person doesn't think you are attractive. Nobody is found attractive by everybody and who cares anyway. Some guys are arses and call anyone ugly because they hold themselves in too high esteem.
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    Relax

    Hold yourself in better esteem than breaking down when one person doesn't think you are attractive. Nobody is found attractive by everybody and who cares anyway. Some guys are arses and call anyone ugly because they hold themselves in too high esteem.
    your right, he could have been nicer. he goes im 'awful'
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    What you gotta remember is you can't please everyone.
    In this world there will be people that think you are attractive and people that think you aren't (regardless whether you wear make up or not).
    That was just one guy's opinion of you, take it on the chin because you are better than this ^-^
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Ive always been called attractive so this is the first time ive been called ugly. so my friend sent a guy a picture of my trying to set me up -_- and he replied 'err' implying that i was ugly. then he said its because im not wearing makeup (i was wearing it, but minimal) this has made me think do i need to wear more makeup in real life :cry:

    this is the first time this has happened. its made me wonder if i really i am ugly and everyone just lies to me to my face.

    guys never call a girl ugly it shoots their self confidence down to 0
    Chances are you don't look too bad; why let one man's opinion shake you so much? Even the most beautiful celebrities in the world have their dislikers. You can't be attractive to everyone because everyone has different aesthetic tastes. Just don't date this guy because he's obviously not for you
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    your right, he could have been nicer. he goes im 'awful'
    Guys call Beyonce ugly. Guys are dicks, especially ones that would call somebody ugly to their face. Let it go and have some more respect for yourself
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Ive always been called attractive so this is the first time ive been called ugly. so my friend sent a guy a picture of my trying to set me up -_- and he replied 'err' implying that i was ugly. then he said its because im not wearing makeup (i was wearing it, but minimal) this has made me think do i need to wear more makeup in real life :cry:

    this is the first time this has happened. its made me wonder if i really i am ugly and everyone just lies to me to my face.

    guys never call a girl ugly it shoots their self confidence down to 0
    Post a picture.
    We'll see whether you're ugly or not.
    I doubt you are
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    "Guys call Beyoncé ugly". That's completely true. Some guys are absolute idiots, and if you aren't their type, will refer to you as ugly even when you can be quite the opposite. He's obviously a complete ****, his loss not yours.
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    Thanks everyone :console:
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    My teacher once told me "there is always going to someone prettier than you and someone uglier". Harsh, but it was supposed to make a girl in my class feel better.
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    He is clearly a shallow idiot, secondly everyone has their own type. That's not me trying to sugar coat things because I'm being honest. I see girls who are clearly attractive to a lot of guys, but I don't find them particularly attractive because they aren't my type.

    Stay positive, I'm sure you are cute as hell. Just have confidence
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    Who cares about one guy's opinion?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Thanks everyone :console:
    how can you be ugly if I'm ugly. That's identity theft
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    He's not worth your time. Sadly girls never seem to win... If we wear makeup we're fake, if we don't, we're "ugly". He's obviously shallow. I bet you're drop dead gorgeous, both body and soul <3
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    Oh god, how will you go on???
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    A topic wasn't needed for that.

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    Sometimes guys call girls who are fit as **** ugly, its a pickup technique called "negging"
 
 
 
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