Girls scare the hell out of me, advice needed! Watch

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I'm 19 and I've only ever kissed a couple of girls and I was quite drunk both times. Girls seem to find me attractive but I'm too scared to make the most of it. I can talk to girls absolutely fine, but I'm scared to take it further e.g. kiss them.

For example, last night I met a cute french girl in a club and she took my hand and dragged me on to dance floor and I could tell she wanted to at least kiss me, but because I was so hesitant I messed it up.

How can I become less nervous about kissing/having sex?
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Stop putting them on a pedestal for a start.
This may be a revelation, but girls are just like you.
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All I can really say is that if a girl gives you clear indicators that she wants to be intimate, then you should just go for it.

Don't think negatively, in fact perhaps don't even think at all. Don't back away.

Just. Go. For. It.

If girls are finding you attractive and dragging you onto the dance floor, then you are already 90% of the way there. There is nothing getting in your way other than yourself. In that moment, you are in a situation that a good majority of men could only dream to be in. So you know what you do? You make the most of it.

Let's put it this way; I wish I were in your shoes buddy!
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people are people, it doesn't matter what gender they are so you should be able to talk to them just like you do with your guy friends.
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Just be gay. Much less hassle and at least you know where you stand.
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r/nofap
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(Original post by Anonymous)
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No. Just, no.
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