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What does this mean!? He asked me to go on holiday!!

Hi,

I'd appreciate if any of you could shed some light into my situation. A guy who i've been seeing for about 3 weeks, asked me to go on holiday with him next weekend to Spain? What does that mean?

I mean like why me, why not go with friends to pick up some girls etc.? Here's the deal, we've slept together a couple of times, it was great, but i know he's got his way with the ladies more than enough, partying in st. tropez and the like very often. We practice a sport together everyday, and in my opinion are more mates than lovers, of course there's the attraction..

BUT he's been saying things like "we've got such similar mentalities, in another world we'd be married, i'd love to have a little girl with your attitude/feistiness, i told my dad about you and he was like well there's the girl for you, you're the fittest girl ever, i'm gonna marry you, i just love your spirit on the court"... Just today he brought his niece to see when we play..

At first i didn't like him at all basically, but have grown fond of him now, basically i'm just asking what do you think, does he like me a lot or could he just be playing me??

Reply 1

Estella
Hi,

I'd appreciate if any of you could shed some light into my situation. A guy who i've been seeing for about 3 weeks, asked me to go on holiday with him next weekend to Spain? What does that mean?

I mean like why me, why not go with friends to pick up some girls etc.? Here's the deal, we've slept together a couple of times, it was great, but i know he's got his way with the ladies more than enough, partying in st. tropez and the like very often. We practice a sport together everyday, and in my opinion are more mates than lovers, of course there's the attraction..

BUT he's been saying things like "we've got such similar mentalities, in another world we'd be married, i'd love to have a little girl with your attitude/feistiness, i told my dad about you and he was like well there's the girl for you, you're the fittest girl ever, i'm gonna marry you, i just love your spirit on the court"... Just today he brought his niece to see when we play..

At first i didn't like him at all basically, but have grown fond of him now, basically i'm just asking what do you think, does he like me a lot or could he just be playing me??



only time will tell... be cautious

much love<3

L.

Reply 2

"we've got such similar mentalities, in another world we'd be married, i'd love to have a little girl with your attitude/feistiness, i told my dad about you and he was like well there's the girl for you, you're the fittest girl ever, i'm gonna marry you, i just love your spirit on the court"...
thats odd.
So you're dating right? go if you want, but do what your gut tells you :wink:

Reply 3

I'd say he likes you a lot. Go on holiday! What's this thread all about?

Reply 4

I was friends with a guy a while back, who was exactly the same (by the sounds of it)... I would love to say that he means everything that he says, and perhaps he does, but i'd say just be careful... go on holiday IF YOU WANT TO, because it will be fun~! but just see where this takes you... don't expect too much! good luck! xxx