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No girlfriend by age 18= ugly??? watch

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    No, there are other things such as low confidence.

    Not having a girlfriend by 18 isn't anything special by the way... Lots of others in the same boat as you.
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    No.
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    Me: No boyfriend at 18= ugly?
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    You're either ugly, shy or pretty normal.
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    (Original post by LeScienceBlogger)
    Me: No boyfriend at 18= ugly?
    ^hope not? :s :')


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    No, there are other things such as low confidence.

    Not having a girlfriend by 18 isn't anything special by the way... Lots of others in the same boat as you.
    Preach it UWS!
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    Having a relationship is not the only thing in life you know, go get a hobby or something you will be less stressed and stop thinking you're ugly.
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    (Original post by Failingstudent98)
    ^hope not? :s :'


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    I'd say it's certainly an indicator if not by choice.
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    Lord of all damnation, what is it with you kids?

    For Christ sake, you're going on like you're a 40 year old virgin.
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    As an old fart of 48 I would say to both males and females; what's the rush? You should try and learn to be happy, comfortable and confident with yourself, in your own skin. Expand your mind and your horizons; educate yourself, travel the world, meet people of different cultures if you are able to. This reminds me of a thread a few months back on here made by an 18 year old girl who was desperate to have a baby as soon as possible. What a sad waste of a young life. If you are happy within yourself this is very attractive to people.Then when the time is right you WILL meet someone. But for goodness sake, don't deliberately go out of your way to try and meet someone simply for the sake of "having a girlfriend". It doesn't work that way.
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    Just to add. My son will be 20 in February. He has never had a girlfriend. Although trust me, he has had plenty of offers. He told me he wants to wait until he meets someone he finds interesting enough to want to go out with. None of the girls either near where we live or in his college appeal to him.
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    (Original post by markova21)
    Just to add. My son will be 20 in February. He has never had a girlfriend. Although trust me, he has had plenty of offers. He told me he wants to wait until he meets someone he finds interesting enough to want to go out with. None of the girls either near where we live or in his college appeal to him.
    That's by choice though as he has had offers.
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    Im 18 nearly 19 and im single i know im ugly and fat but ive seen uglier people get in relationships i attract ****boys and i get hurt a lot
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    I'm almost 20 and have never had a GF yet people have said I should model etc. Looks has nothing to do with it. I doubt you're ugly, maybe you're just insecure and/or shy?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
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    Instead of complaining about it, you should enjoy your freedom and do things to improve your own confidence. Work hard, go to the gym, eat well, play sport etc and girls will come to you. You automatically assume you're ugly because you think it's the only reason a girl would be attracted to you - it's not. Part of that is because you're still young and haven't experienced relationships. So I suggest you do the same as what I recommend to every other guy in your position - enjoy your life and stop giving a ****. You'll learn soon enough that girls are shallow - they only date ugly guys because those guys have something else going well for them. Money, gains, material possessions etc. Work your way up to that position and the girls will be all over you.
 
 
 
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