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how to sort myself out

I'm quite an odd person i don't do well in relationship's cos i either get used and hurt or because i mess it up cos i'm rubbish at being with someone to be honest , I've become a cold , depressed and lonely person and i NEVER used to be like this , i have one or two friends but i never see them cos we don't have "time" and all i do is work i never ever do anything and my life has become a waste a time , boring and lonely . People are always saying " start again " and try and start a new life but how !? easier said then done i just don't know how to fix myself and make my life more fun and interesting...
Original post by chuffyduffy216
I'm quite an odd person i don't do well in relationship's cos i either get used and hurt or because i mess it up cos i'm rubbish at being with someone to be honest , I've become a cold , depressed and lonely person and i NEVER used to be like this , i have one or two friends but i never see them cos we don't have "time" and all i do is work i never ever do anything and my life has become a waste a time , boring and lonely . People are always saying " start again " and try and start a new life but how !? easier said then done i just don't know how to fix myself and make my life more fun and interesting...


To be fair I can relate to this having been hurt myself a few times lately and I have messed up a couple times. It depends what you are doing in life whether you are at Uni, I would have said try and get involved in societies there or if you are in work see if you can find someone to hang out with, again easier said than done.
Take up a hobby, join a club, take up a class, volunteer etc. Get yourself out there so that you can socialise.

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