So it happened this morning, the second time I've had sex since losing my virginity. We fooled around for a short amount of time (not long enough). I told him to put on a condom to prevent any accidents. Then within no time he put it in, it didn't hurt but i felt it more this time. When we moved positions for doggy he got really into it, whilst I struggled to keep in rhythm. He told me to relax whilst he did all the work which I did do. I felt like he mostly concentrated on getting himself off tbh and I was very disappointed that it ended so quickly.
I rolled over and tried to get some sleep whilst he tried to hug and kiss me. He leaned on me at one point and I told him to get off because I was in agony down there. He apologised for it and asked if he was a little too rough. I think he kind of forgot that I'm inexperienced. I kinda dragged myself around all morning and couldn't even go to the toilet because it hurt. I told him I thought we had sex too quickly and should of done more foreplay.
I still can't get over how self centred he was during though, I know it's my second time but shouldn't be be trying to get me to orgasm?
I was having the same problem but being irritated at him all the time just made our sex life worse. It takes a few times to get used to the feeling so ask him to go slower next time. When he goes slower you'll get more used to it and become more relaxed.
It used to hurt me afterwards too because I was always tense and irritated at him but honestly those feelings are contributing to the pain you get because nerves/stress can cause you to tense the muscles in the vagina even if you don't think you're nervous. Try to be calm and enjoy other aspects of sex and it will come naturally, it helps if you're in a relationship with someone as its good practice and they should be more understanding than a one night stand
Ditch him lol.
Probably the same sort of guy that asks you if you came, after you've given them a blow-job lol.