Second time sex wasn't that great. Why did I feel a little sad afterwards?

Aw, this wouldn't have happened if you weren't just another naive girl who thinks the guy is in love with them for some magical reason which in fact he just wants to blow your back out. wake up love, you did it to yourself. Good luck X

I'm sensing done Sarcasm here.

Now his blood is in your blood. Keep ****ing and you'll be the one who's self-centered, either soon or later. Have a good life. (Y)

Aw, this wouldn't have happened if you weren't just another naive girl who thinks the guy is in love with them for some magical reason which in fact he just wants to blow your back out. wake up love, you did it to yourself. Good luck X

Post coital depression is an actual thing, but it sounds like this guy is just bad. Wooden and not in a good way.

Loool funniest thing I've read all week.

You're the joke love, hope he blows your back harder next time so you finally realise you're a cretin. X

Well, if you say so

Rob is right, you are wrong. Frankly, your advice is terrible.

To the OP, it sounds like it's a simple misunderstanding. It's going to hurt the first few times, not his fault, not your fault, just simple biology. It's completely understandable that when you asked him to put a condom on, he thought it was time for **** ing. The key to good sex is communication; if you want more foreplay then you have to express that desire, it's no good expecting someone to be a mindreader and then getting angry when they don't precisely deduce your expectations.

From your OP it sounds like he's basically a good guy, considerate. You can work with that; just communicate more and it will get better, you won't feel resentful about it.

What? That I changed my mind, and he got on my back about it.

Aw, this wouldn't have happened if you weren't just another naive girl who thinks the guy is in love with them for some magical reason which in fact he just wants to blow your back out. wake up love, you did it to yourself. Good luck X

I edited my post so it didn't seem so accusatory towards you. But I stand by it; I don't think your advice was particularly helpful. It sounds like the OP's boyfriend is fundamentally decent, all that's needed is better communication so that both parties can get what they need.

So many problems arise in relationships and sex when one party, or both, expect the other to be a mindreader and then get resentful when the other doesn't do exactly what they're expecting. This is easily remedied by being open with each other and talking about it, particularly when it comes to sex.

Anyway, that is my advice to the OP.

I never even insinuated that OP was indecent.

Were you jilted recently?

No relationship is going to have consistent great sex

I don't actually see what he's done wrong lmao?

Sometimes when you're both giving movement it can be awkward to synchronise properly, so most of the time it's better if just one person is taking the lead (girl when she's on top, for example). Got nothing to do with being 'self-centered'.

the problem is that it was actually centered around him and he didn't consider her at any point.

So it happened this morning, the second time I've had sex since losing my virginity. We fooled around for a short amount of time (not long enough). I told him to put on a condom to prevent any accidents. Then within no time he put it in, it didn't hurt but i felt it more this time. When we moved positions for doggy he got really into it, whilst I struggled to keep in rhythm. He told me to relax whilst he did all the work which I did do. I felt like he mostly concentrated on getting himself off tbh and I was very disappointed that it ended so quickly.

I rolled over and tried to get some sleep whilst he tried to hug and kiss me. He leaned on me at one point and I told him to get off because I was in agony down there. He apologised for it and asked if he was a little too rough. I think he kind of forgot that I'm inexperienced. I kinda dragged myself around all morning and couldn't even go to the toilet because it hurt. I told him I thought we had sex too quickly and should of done more foreplay.
I still can't get over how self centred he was during though, I know it's my second time but shouldn't be be trying to get me to orgasm?