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    I sometimes even think my own parents do not love me.I everyone thinks that I am weird.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I sometimes even think my own parents do not love me.I everyone thinks that I am weird.
    https://youtu.be/E_qvy82U4RE

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    Born alone, walk alone, die alone 😂😂😂 you'll be ok x
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I sometimes even think my own parents do not love me.I everyone thinks that I am weird.
    Why do you think so?

    Whatever your answer is to that, why?

    Whatever your answer is to that, why is that so?

    Come on, try it and comment here.

    Is it because you're different or something? Is there something they don't like specifically? That's how society often is. Or maybe, you're just overthinking. Or maybe, you're actually in such a position. I wouldn't know.

    I'm sure there are people who you can bond with. Not sure if your family don't really love you - they probably do but maybe there's a problem like not enough contact with them idk.
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    (Original post by Sesshomaru24U)
    https://youtu.be/E_qvy82U4RE

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    This wasn't meant to make me laugh right?
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    (Original post by an_atheist)
    This wasn't meant to make me laugh right?
    No I was it was a serious message.
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    Life is hard. Soldier up!
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    There's someone for everyone, you never know when you'll meet them or how. But there is, I highly doubt your parents don't love you.

    Besides, being alone can be great in a lot of ways
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    Why do you think so?

    Whatever your answer is to that, why?

    Whatever your answer is to that, why is that so?

    Come on, try it and comment here.

    Is it because you're different or something? Is there something they don't like specifically? That's how society often is. Or maybe, you're just overthinking. Or maybe, you're actually in such a position. I wouldn't know.

    I'm sure there are people who you can bond with. Not sure if your family don't really love you - they probably do but maybe there's a problem like not enough contact with them idk.
    I am different my parents are way cooler than even I am not aware fo the latest things etc my parents are so confident and i always just say so much bs that they feel embarassed.They always leave me at home they never go anywhere with me I feel like crying writing this as I feel so lonely they never want to spend time with me my weekends are just depressing :cry:.I feel tired of being at home and school all the time.I find it hard to make friends there is just no one who i think I want to really spend time with.I feel like my parents are ashamed of who I am I find the weekends just hard I feel so lonely it is just unbearable.I don't want to go anywhere either due to anxiety.I feel trapped ashamed and unloved.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I am different my parents are way cooler than even I am not aware fo the latest things etc my parents are so confident and i always just say so much bs that they feel embarassed.They always leave me at home they never go anywhere with me I feel like crying writing this as I feel so lonely they never want to spend time with me my weekends are just depressing :cry:.I feel tired of being at home and school all the time.I find it hard to make friends there is just no one who i think I want to really spend time with.I feel like my parents are ashamed of who I am I find the weekends just hard I feel so lonely it is just unbearable.I don't want to go anywhere either due to anxiety.I feel trapped ashamed and unloved.
    Aww, don't feel too bad I'm sure your parents love you.

    Why do you think they're "cooler" than you? Why do you think you have to know about every latest thing? Why do you think you're saying bs? What happens when you ask them to take you to places with them?

    About making friends, you make friends usually when you find common ground with someone. I don't have much friends, but recently I've been socialising more. I don't really think I have a single true friend though - maybe 1 or 2 and those are only possibilities or maybe my idea of a true friend is too skewed. Nevertheless, one cannot obtain 'friends' so easily.

    If you're lonely, find ways of dealing with it. Maybe spend some time with elderly people giving them a hand and possibly raising money at the same time, getting a part-time job, volunteering to help people, getting yourself involved in projects and stuff depending on where you live.

    Make yourself more well-rounded. If you have a passion for something, consider learning more about it, studying more about it, and as you better yourself, people will naturally come to respect you more.

    Tell me with a straight face you haven't tried everything?

    It's only when you've tried everything that it's over. And even if one man were to complete such an endeavour, that still doesn't mean it's over 'cause life keeps moving on.
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    Aww, don't feel too bad I'm sure your parents love you.

    Why do you think they're "cooler" than you? Why do you think you have to know about every latest thing? Why do you think you're saying bs? What happens when you ask them to take you to places with them?

    About making friends, you make friends usually when you find common ground with someone. I don't have much friends, but recently I've been socialising more. I don't really think I have a single true friend though - maybe 1 or 2 and those are only possibilities or maybe my idea of a true friend is too skewed. Nevertheless, one cannot obtain 'friends' so easily.

    If you're lonely, find ways of dealing with it. Maybe spend some time with elderly people giving them a hand and possibly raising money at the same time, getting a part-time job, volunteering to help people, getting yourself involved in projects and stuff depending on where you live.

    Make yourself more well-rounded. If you have a passion for something, consider learning more about it, studying more about it, and as you better yourself, people will naturally come to respect you more.

    Tell me with a straight face you haven't tried everything?

    It's only when you've tried everything that it's over. And even if one man were to complete such an endeavour, that still doesn't mean it's over 'cause life keeps moving on.
    1.I think they are cooler in the terms they know the latest music etc while I am well not interested they think I am a nerd/geek.They fit the modern teen more than me.

    2.Bs I mean stupid things they always get angry I often say things without thinking they think I am a bimbo as I like looking at fashion and i like designer clothes I do not own any but I like looking at it.I let's say lack common say I like to speak about irrelevant thigns that is what they call it anyway I think nothing is irrelevant I can talk about anything from countries to shoes etc I love facts I learn new ones everyday they are not interested and think they are irrelevant they think I am a boring person.They always go out and just leave me .

    3.They think I am grown up and can do things independently yes i can go here and there on my own but I don't want to they do not understnad my anxiety.I remember once when i went out on my own I was so anxious I fell onto the pavement.I do not ask them as they usually go later at night like 7 and they would not take me probably so I do not ask as they seem like they are just happy being the two of them and would not care whether I exist or not.I feel like it is them 2 and me in the background unseen.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I sometimes even think my own parents do not love me.I everyone thinks that I am weird.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    1.I think they are cooler in the terms they know the latest music etc while I am well not interested they think I am a nerd/geek.They fit the modern teen more than me.

    2.Bs I mean stupid things they always get angry I often say things without thinking they think I am a bimbo as I like looking at fashion and i like designer clothes I do not own any but I like looking at it.I let's say lack common say I like to speak about irrelevant thigns that is what they call it anyway I think nothing is irrelevant I can talk about anything from countries to shoes etc I love facts I learn new ones everyday they are not interested and think they are irrelevant they think I am a boring person.They always go out and just leave me .

    3.They think I am grown up and can do things independently yes i can go here and there on my own but I don't want to they do not understnad my anxiety.I remember once when i went out on my own I was so anxious I fell onto the pavement.I do not ask them as they usually go later at night like 7 and they would not take me probably so I do not ask as they seem like they are just happy being the two of them and would not care whether I exist or not.I feel like it is them 2 and me in the background unseen.
    1. You simply may have a different style of music. I don't really like all this trendy crap music - I mean don't get me wrong, some of them are quite good. But you shouldn't need to try and force yourself to like something just to 'fit' in. They certainly do not think of you in the ways you describe them thinking of you. Also, it's okay to be a nerd or a geek.

    2. If you like looking at fashion clothes and stuff (probably because you want to wear them someday, I know because I've looked at Anime clothes) then hey, that's your thing and it's good knowledge to know about materials and stuff and if it's your interest, then they (and you) should respect that and stop being insecure and thinking they think you're a bimbo or something.

    3. I have some anxiety issues too, but one of the best things you can do is improve your physical and mental health. You're going to have to start exploring here. Exercise will really help for your physical (and mental) health. Learning more about society and staying up to date with the news as well as being able to give your own opinions about them will strike two birds with one stone - you will be able to keep up with the latest news and stuff, as well as actually bettering your mental health and ability to think critically.

    Ask them to take you after 7. Just do it. Never know for sure what's gonna happen until you try. That's the whole point of trying.

    Also, ask them what they truly think of you.

    You should feedback here what happens after you try all that. You might need to change your mindset a bit - sounds like you're being troubled by little things. The only real big thing I can see here is you being a bit lonely.
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    (Original post by Sesshomaru24U)
    No I was it was a serious message.
    Damn, now I feel like an ass. Meh, life goes on.
 
 
 
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