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    I am overwhelmed by feelings of loneliness my life is just home and school I just sleep or do nothing at home it has gotten to the point that I see no point studying or doing anything I feel no joy.I feel just trapped and isolated i have nothing to look forward to .I dread weekends they are so boring I don't feel like studying or doing anything.I tried to make friends but my parents do not understand that these "friends"I don't really like them and i cannot really relate to anyone and be who I really am and say how I feel but then again there is no one that i can really tell how i feel deep inside.
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    (Original post by Anonymous1502)
    I am overwhelmed by feelings of loneliness my life is just home and school I just sleep or do nothing at home it has gotten to the point that I see no point studying or doing anything I feel no joy.I feel just trapped and isolated i have nothing to look forward to .I dread weekends they are so boring I don't feel like studying or doing anything.I tried to make friends but my parents do not understand that these "friends"I don't really like them and i cannot really relate to anyone and be who I really am and say how I feel but then again there is no one that i can really tell how i feel deep inside.
    What year are you in?
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    You're probably the kind of person that doesn't necessarily need to be surrounded by people and it might end up making you feel worse, I know too much time around my friends makes me feel worse
    Do you have a dog by any chance? I love walking my dog or riding my horse for hours at a time, usually stops those kind of feelings
    Hope you feel better soon
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    What year are you in?
    Year 11.I just feel so deflated being rejected from 3 schools this week has really been just sad.
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    you're not the only one. i've gone through this for about two years. god speed brother
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    you're not the only one. i've gone through this for about two years. god speed brother
    What do you mean?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    You're probably the kind of person that doesn't necessarily need to be surrounded by people and it might end up making you feel worse, I know too much time around my friends makes me feel worse
    Do you have a dog by any chance? I love walking my dog or riding my horse for hours at a time, usually stops those kind of feelings
    Hope you feel better soon
    No I only talk to these people in school otherwise i do not talk to them as i don't really like them i am tired of my parents all the time having a go at me for not having friends.
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    (Original post by Anonymous1502)
    What do you mean?

    i thought the feeling of me feeling down, empty, alone, not wanting to be alive was just a fad during sixth form and was going to disappear. turns out its followed me into my second year of university, i haven't gone to see anybody so i don't want to put a label onto anything, but thats how i feel.
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    i thought the feeling of me feeling down, empty, alone, not wanting to be alive was just a fad during sixth form and was going to disappear. turns out its followed me into my second year of university, i haven't gone to see anybody so i don't want to put a label onto anything, but thats how i feel.
    I feel very similar I feel lonely which is a state of mind i can be in crows surrounded by people but inside I feel scared and lonely i feel like my own parent sod not want to spend time with me .My parents need to understand that loneliness is a state of mind not being.I can go out with friends who are not really my friends but at the end of the day I will still feel hollow and lonely because it is a state of mind not of being.All I ever do is clean go to school and from school home eat etc.I do not like going out on my own I feel scared to be honest I once fell really hard onto the pavement when I went out on my own for a walk I think it was because inside I felt scared.Loneliness is not through choice it is a complex thing I believe.

    I feel like I cannot study anymore or relax or do anything in fact.I have do my homeworks quickly i don't revise for tests because inside I feel done for I feel like i have nothing left nothing to look forward to.I work hard during weekday for what?I want to have a good future but inside I am finding it hard to get back up.
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    No I only talk to these people in school otherwise i do not talk to them as i don't really like them i am tired of my parents all the time having a go at me for not having friends.
    It's not up to your parents whether you have friends or not. Tell them to stop having a go at you for it. It's your life after all
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    It's not up to your parents whether you have friends or not. Tell them to stop having a go at you for it. It's your life after all
    They don't understand loneliness they think make friends invite them over.I don't choose to be lonely I don't want to be around others as I am tired of putting up a show all the time being this person I know it sound ironic perhaps but loneliness is complicated it causes me great saddness because I feel like I want to have friends etc but I don't want to at the same time.I feel worried about my academic preformance as usually I am an A/A* student and recently I don't understand what is going on I don't find the work hard but I am not working hard like I used to.I feel desperate for love my parents find it annoying that I keep demanding their love and i want to hear it all the time but I need it.
 
 
 
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