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I have feelings for a muslim girl.

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    I've met this girl at uni who I really like and she likes me as well, only problem is that she is muslim. She says she can't do anything before marriage so I don't want to pursue anything but I still have feelings for her and really like her. She told me that she would like to just be friends but I don't think we should as I have feelings for her. Any advice on what to do?
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    unless she has feelings for you I don't think it's gonna happen sorry
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    I don't really think you guys can be friends either btw
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    Ate you Muslim also ? Or ?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Ar e you Muslim also ? Or ?
    * correction
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    (Original post by BellyButton Face)
    I don't really think you guys can be friends either btw
    Why?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
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    No, catholic. Not really practising though
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    The best thing to do would be to speak to her about this and ask her what her views are. Every muslim has different views so you never know she might still be willing to be with you without you needing to convert. None of us here can predict what her decision would likely be. Discuss this with her and tell her exactly how you feel and I agree you can't be just friends with someone you have feelings for. It's never a good idea. I know this from first hand experience
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    (Original post by tammie123)
    The best thing to do would be to speak to her about this and ask her what her views are. Every muslim has different views so you never know she might still be willing to be with you without you needing to convert. None of us here can predict what her decision would likely be. Discuss this with her and tell her exactly how you feel and I agree you can't be just friends with someone you have feelings for. It's never a good idea. I know this from first hand experience
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    (Original post by tammie123)
    The best thing to do would be to speak to her about this and ask her what her views are. Every muslim has different views so you never know she might still be willing to be with you without you needing to convert. None of us here can predict what her decision would likely be. Discuss this with her and tell her exactly how you feel and I agree you can't be just friends with someone you have feelings for. It's never a good idea. I know this from first hand experience
    Yeah, i mean i'm only 18 so not looking for marriage or anything just yet but she's pretty adamant that she won't do anything before marriage, even though she likes me
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Yeah, i mean i'm only 18 so not looking for marriage or anything just yet but she's pretty adamant that she won't do anything before marriage, even though she likes me
    Oh right I see well there is the option of dating but without any of the physical stuff, is that something you'd consider?
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    (Original post by tammie123)
    Oh right I see well there is the option of dating but without any of the physical stuff, is that something you'd consider?
    Really don't think i could do it
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Really don't think i could do it
    Then I think the best option would be to stop being friends. Once feelings are involved I don't think a girl and guy can be friends to be honest. Things end up getting really messy
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    (Original post by tammie123)
    Then I think the best option would be to stop being friends. Once feelings are involved I don't think a girl and guy can be friends to be honest. Things end up getting really messy
    I get what you mean, thanks x
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I get what you mean, thanks x
    no problem
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    (Original post by tammie123)
    The best thing to do would be to speak to her about this and ask her what her views are. Every muslim has different views so you never know she might still be willing to be with you without you needing to convert. None of us here can predict what her decision would likely be. Discuss this with her and tell her exactly how you feel and I agree you can't be just friends with someone you have feelings for. It's never a good idea. I know this from first hand experience
    We couldn't be lovers so we decided to be nothing at all
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    (Original post by trustmeimlying1)
    We couldn't be lovers so we decided to be nothing at all
    What do you mean? I didn't understand that
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    (Original post by trustmeimlying1)
    We couldn't be lovers so we decided to be nothing at all
    What a poetic quote

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    (Original post by blackdiamond97)
    What a poetic quote

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    Rep me tightarse.

    And to OP there's always another girl.
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    How about focusing your attention on women that like you?
 
 
 
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