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    Hey fellow TSR users! Bit of a personal issue but, here we go!
    Ok so I'm a 17 year old girl, and I am bisexual. I would say I masturbate every other day and usually twice when I do. Does anyone else know if this kills your sex drive? Because I feel like I'm never interested in sex, and I find guys can never make me want to even if they say the most dreamiest of things. Im at the point where the idea of never having sex again does not even bother me. I'm only curious because I was in a relationship for a year and half, within which I had a really high sex drive, and rarely masturbated. Has the masturbation caused it to lessen?? Anyone else's personal experiences would also be helpful.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I would say I masturbate every other day and usually twice when I do. Does anyone else know if this kills your sex drive? Because I feel like I'm never interested in sex, and I find guys can never make me want to even if they say the most dreamiest of things. Im at the point where the idea of never having sex again does not even bother me.
    No, it's a sign that you've still got one despite not having a partner.

    What are you looking for in a partner? Where would you find someone like that?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Hey fellow TSR users! Bit of a personal issue but, here we go!
    Ok so I'm a 17 year old girl, and I am bisexual. I would say I masturbate every other day and usually twice when I do. Does anyone else know if this kills your sex drive? Because I feel like I'm never interested in sex, and I find guys can never make me want to even if they say the most dreamiest of things. Im at the point where the idea of never having sex again does not even bother me. I'm only curious because I was in a relationship for a year and half, within which I had a really high sex drive, and rarely masturbated. Has the masturbation caused it to lessen?? Anyone else's personal experiences would also be helpful.
    yeah that's what masturbation is supposed to do...relieve you?

    when you had sex your drive got fulfilled and when you're alone masturbation should do that to (Although I've always thought it'd never fulfil a person to the same extent as actually being with someone would but you get the point)


    when you say "Im at the point where the idea of never having sex again does not even bother me. " maybe cause noone is initiating it. Masturbating probably fulfils your urge to intiate, if a guy started touching up on you etc you're probably get horny again esp because masturbation is different to being with someone.
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    It's normal to experience different levels of libido. it's not a set rate and it changes with health, life and sexual habits.

    Generally the more often you do any sexually arousing activity, the more it encourages your libido.

    Besides which, you're not even an adult yet. Your libido is affected by hormonal changes during the puberty process. Most people don't have the same levels they had as hormone fuelled teens.
 
 
 
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