I really want him!Please help!

I really liked a guy called Steven since I was 14! and to be honest it seems pathetic but never got with him! I danced with him at my brother's wedding a couple of years ago but that was all! He is about to head to Cambridge in October and I will bearly see him! He is one my friend's brother and I am heading up to her birthday party on thursday! She said Steven isn't really into having girlfriends but something could happen! Can anyone suggest any flirting techniques? Any strategies to see what he thinks of me? Can someone give me an idea of what to wear to appeal to him? PLEASE Help :smile:

Reply 1

randomgirl

Just talk to him and see how it goes. Don't be OTT and in your face and don't act desperate.

Just see how things go. :smile:

Reply 2

I_am_the_mob

Yeah, that's all you can do now
Good luck :biggrin:

I know it's scary but if you never try you will never know

Reply 3

Ang|ophi|e

Dress your best. Engage in a good conversation with him. Compliment him. See his reactions to you and if he has any sort of attaction for you. That's the first that comes to mind.

Reply 4

Music_Enthusiast

The plain fact is he's either gonna like you or he isn't no matter how hard you try to impress. I wouldn't get your hopes up.

Reply 5

KarlZ

Whatever you do dont be overkeen/act desperate because it can be quite a turn off. Look your best (because lets face it impressions do count), dont look too try hard e.g. dressing up to the nines if its a bbq - you get my drift - and most importantly go to the party to enjoy yourself not just to pull him otherwise if all doesnt go as you hope (i.e. hes not interested/gets off with someone else etc) then it'll just ruin a good party. Having fun should be your main priority! If hes not interested at the end of the day then think about it, hes off to uni and even your mate said hes not looking for a long term gf, you'll be ok. Other than that if he is interested then just enjoy his company for the time being and dont expect too much.

Reply 6

vizor

Get a mutual friend to see if he likes you. If he does then chat with him and make arrangements to meet up. On the other hand, if he says to the mutual friend that he doesn't like you - the sooner you back away, the better it will be for you.

Reply 7

bex_26797

Oops, well I went to my friend's party and Steven was there and I got a friend to say to him and he was like get her over to talk to me. I got him to get me drinks and stuff and it was all going wellish as i talked to his random friends and all.

Then I had to spoil everything by getting fully drunk and my friends who got me home safely told me he felt guilty for buying me drink... :frown:

and then I was sick everywhere.. so I think Steven thinks I am an alco... he is such a lovely respectable guy..

I had offers but I have only eyes for him...

I am a sad-case..
haha

Reply 8

Music_Enthusiast

How old are you now, 15?