when girls say "If I see you again.."

What does it mean if you go and try and chat up a random girl, she "seems" to flirt back a bit, ...but when you ask her out or ask for her number she says "If I see you again.."

I used to get this occasionally during my "PUA" days
[I was a fairly unsuccessful PUA I might add, so gave that up a long time ago]


I am thinking when a girl says this it's just a soft way of rejecting you ...and she is not expecting to bump into you again. I mean really, In a city full of 8 million people how likely is it you'll run into that person again?

I have also been told "maybe next time" too by some girls, which seems to be a variation of the "if I see you again" line

Seems like rejection, feelsbadman :/

One time after getting that line I decided to call the girl out on it and said "so the answer is no then? ..you're not interested?" ....and she again replied "If I see you again" ...and I tried once more asking her if it is a no ..and again she said "If I see you again"


why couldn't she just reject me properly?
I gave her enough chances.

I think it was a rejection ...but I am not 100% sure

I refuse to believe she actually thought we'd bump into each other again.

What does it mean if you go and try and chat up a random girl, she "seems" to flirt back a bit, ...but when you ask her out or ask for her number she says "If I see you again.."

I used to get this occasionally during my "PUA" days
[I was a fairly unsuccessful PUA I might add, so gave that up a long time ago]


I am thinking when a girl says this it's just a soft way of rejecting you ...and she is not expecting to bump into you again. I mean really, In a city full of 8 million people how likely is it you'll run into that person again?

I have also been told "maybe next time" too by some girls, which seems to be a variation of the "if I see you again" line

lol I've used those exact lines on a guy who was crazy about me, but I wasn't sure if I liked him that much. We ended up being good friends as he hated it every time I used those phrases