Help me. Please. (I still love her :|)

Keep ANON OR DELETE. Please do not reveal this thread. My mates use these forums.

I posted about 8 months ago about breaking up with my girlfriend of 5 months. (On new years day)

I'm a 17 year old guy but its bugging me. I can't get over her. We had EVERYTHING in common. Absoloutly everything. I can't believe we aren't toghether still. I just want a normal 17 year old life...I don't want to be lovesick :frown:

I'm not going to tell you the whole story but she doesn't speak to me anymore. It doesn't hurt as much as it did at the time. However, to avoid future questions, I was framed by a jealous best-friend of the girl and dumped and told never to speak to my ex again. (by her as well)

It kills me. Seriously, I've been trying not to, but I can't get into another serious relationship. I've had 3 girlfriends since and every single one has ended within a few weeks because I simply can't get over my ex. Therefore I have to come up with excuses such as "work overload A-levels...can't date sorry."

So I really need more tips on how to get over her. I'm never ever getting her back. I know that, however everytime a love song comes on I just think about her...

It was only 5 months but I don't think I'll ever love anyone as much as I did.

I don't drink and I don't want to. I meet my friends every single day...So don't say keep yourself occupied.

There must be something :frown:

Reply 1

stainedglass

The only thing I can say, which probably won't provide you with much comfort, is that you need more time. Things might seem different one day, but with how strong your feelings are, that won't be for some time yet. It's going to hurt a lot but don't wallow in it. I'm a great believer in learning from trying times in your life and coming out the other side a stronger person.

You're keeping yourself occupied, which is good, so continue to do that. I don't think it's the best idea to date other people when your thoughts are so firmly on your ex. Some people might say dating someone else will help you forget, but I don't think that's true.

Reply 2

Rei

How were you framed, cant you just explain the situation to her and say it was her friends doing :s-smilie:

- Sorry btw..you have my sympathy atleast :smile:

Reply 3

ISH

Without knowing details, the only info we'll be able to give would already be known by you if you possess even a tiny amount of common sense. In other words it will be generic help; not of much use.

Time is the key though.

Reply 4

bobby1986

Anonymous

Keep ANON OR DELETE. Please do not reveal this thread. My mates use these forums.

I posted about 8 months ago about breaking up with my girlfriend of 5 months. (On new years day)

don't you think explaining the situation in such detail defeats the whole point of posting anonymously??

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