Which is most sad/loser like?

A 23 year old girl who has never had a bf and is a virgin because no one has asked her out or a 20 year old girl who has had a bf for a week at one point but had a baby recently due to a one night stand and who doesn't know who the father is?

I'l tell why im asking later.

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Reply 1

orbelina

Wait, so the 20 y old only had one boyfriend for a week, but still doesnt know who the father of her baby is? so presumably she has had one night stands? whereas the 23y old has not had sex at all.
I dont think either of them would be particularly sad or loserish tbh! Neither is particularly unusual, i dont know, i suppose it depends on the circumstances and how they feel about it, like if either of them felt sorry for themselves and just moped around THAT would be pretty lose like.

Reply 2

Profesh

Neither: the forty-three-year-old blind, deaf, paraplegic haemophiliac trumps them both.

(Well, since we're being arbitrary.)

Reply 3

orbelina

Profesh

Neither: the forty-three-year-old blind, deaf, paraplegic haemophiliac trumps them both.

(Well, since we're being arbitrary.)

the forty three year old blind, deaf, paraplegic haemophiliac virgin would trump everything :biggrin:

Reply 4

saturn

orbelina

Wait, so the 20 y old only had one boyfriend for a week, but still doesnt know who the father of her baby is? so presumably she has had one night stands? whereas the 23y old has not had sex at all.

Yes, yes, yes and yes.

Reply 5

orbelina

saturn

I'l tell why im asking later.

Tell us now! youve got me all curious now!

Reply 6

saturn

orbelina

Tell us now! youve got me all curious now!

lol don't get too excited its just I know these girls and a few of my friends don't like the 20 year old and say she is pathetic and what she did was sad, though not to her face, they did not think she was pathetic before this happened. Yet my 23 year old female friend agrees but I think its sad that she hasn't dated or anything. Each to there own but yea were like a bunch of kids bitching really, I 'try' to stay out of it.

Reply 7

something_vague

I'd rather be in the 23 year olds position. I wouldn't say either are losers based solely on that though. Girls shouldn't be so bitchy.

Reply 8

randomgirl

Yeah I'd rather be a 23 year old virgin than some girl who slept with 2+ guys in one week and got pregnant in her first week of being a non-virgin!

Reply 9

Segat1

What a bizarre question. Why are you so judgey judgey?

Reply 10

Oldmannow

Guy's dont get fooled by his lies. He is actually trying to decide on a date.

Reply 11

jenna_is_ace

Hahah abrp.

To be honest I'd rather be the 23yr old Virgin, than have a baby at 20 & not know who the father is. However, I like sex.

Reply 12

Fluent in Lies

I'd go for option 3)

'Your mum'

Reply 13

Danielle89

I'd rather be the 23 year old virgin - at the rate Im going thats gonna be me in a few years anyway :wink:

Reply 14

DodgyTrousers

Neither of them is "sad" or "loser like". What gives you, me, or anyone the right to judge their decisions when we probably don't have the first clue about the facts of their life?

Unless, of course, it makes you feel better to belittle others. Then it's fine, obviously.

(and no, I'm neither a virgin nor a young mother)

Reply 15

glideman

abrp

Guy's dont get fooled by his lies. He is actually trying to decide on a date.

lmao

Reply 16

devils_nose

I think it is sad that the baby will never find out who its father is.. but I don't think your friend is sad, I'm sure her situation is quite common, I hope she makes the best of it. And why would your 23 yo friend be sad or a loser?

Actually I think all your friends are losers for picking on someone that is supposed to be a mate.

Reply 17

glideman

i don't think anyone can really judge unless there in that situation but really and truly that girl should have used protection

Reply 18

tehjonny

Nobody is sad, nobody is a 'loser'. They are words invented by insecure children to describe those that make them feel uncomfortable.

Relax :smile:

Reply 19

Fluent in Lies

tehjonny

Nobody is sad, nobody is a 'loser'. They are words invented by insecure children to describe those that make them feel uncomfortable.

Relax :smile:

I would say somone that mugs old women to fuel a drugs addiction is sad. Whilst it may be that the though of such a person brings me discomfort I don't see how that in anyway makes me an 'insecure child'.