The Student Room Group

friend problems....

at the moment, i'm a bit annoyed at my friend. last week she was txting me constantly asking me to go out with her & i kept replying saying that i was busy as i had to revise for my re-sit exams. it got a bit annoying but at the same time i felt bad coz i did actually want to see her. anyway, i finished my exams on monday & so she txted me on tuesday asking me to go for a drink with her & i can't even remember what i was doing but i was busy doing something. so i txtd her yesterday saying i would meet up with her after work today & anyway, i woke up feeling really ill (still am) so i txted her this morning (giving her plenty of notice) exaplaing this to her & she sent me quite an abrupt msg back, (just said "right" no kisses or "get better soon")

why is she being like this? it's not my fault that i've been busy lately & that i'm not well today lol :frown:
Reply 1
some people just get a bit mardy if they feel theyre being let down alot. make the effort to arrange something soon
Reply 2
Because she feels like you're messing her about and keep knocking her back.
maybe yeah, but i just thought she would understand that i have to get my priorities right!
Yea I can understand why she might be abit annoyed... just give her a ring or next time you see her just make sure you tell her you really did have things to do etc
Reply 5
Take her out to lunch and make it up to her, then. She's perceiving you as being flaky but I do realise you don't mean to be like that.