Guys I'm really feeling the urge to talk to him!!!

Actually some people are genuinley happy in relationships and marriage, not everyone does cheat. I can see you are probably going to go back to him, that is entirely up to you but he is using you.

I'm sad for you that you think that, you'll learn the hard way. I haven't had sex with him in over a month, and who's to say that I don't want to use him too?

And I'm not saying ppl aren't happy in their marriage, I'm saying at some point (at least) there's always going to be some kind of betrayal...cheating, money, drugs. Believe me, I know stories about couples and they put on this picture perfect picture but behind closed doors it's a different story.

You really have no idea at all, I have never cheated and never well, there is no way I would put a girl through all that, you can put whatever spin you like on that, but reality is some people are faithful. Course everyone goes through a few issues in marriages etc, but not all of them are to do with cheating or betrayal. You are quite naive with your assumptions.

Im not the naive one, maybe you live in a little safe box with just yourself but I believe if you got the chance to cheat you probably would. Why wouldn't you? If you could get away with it....

Morals?...idk it's so hard to keep them. Maybe you've never been tainted or really live in a bubble with no human contact.

Im not the naive one, maybe you live in a little safe box with just yourself but I believe if you got the chance to cheat you probably would. Why wouldn't you? If you could get away with it....

Morals?...idk it's so hard to keep them. Maybe you've never been tainted or really live in a bubble with no human contact.

Total rubbish if I am happy why would I cheat, what is the point seriously? Not being horrible but you really sound a bitter person, I work in the outdoor industry by the way and live on a work site with loads of social events so plenty of human contact, I am more than comfortable with that.

I had a long distance relationship and had many opportunities to cheat. Not even close to considering it, even when smashed off my tits.

Not all men cheat.

Okay you just lied right there......u never even considered it. You never cheated sure, but never considered or thought about it, ok.

Okay you just lied right there......u never even considered it. You never cheated sure, but never considered or thought about it, ok.

Stop going round in circles like this, it's getting boring now. A lot of your frustration seems to point to the fact that you were cheated on. Ranting about it isn't going to help anyone, least of all you. Do yourself a favour and get your own back on your ex - find another guy you can get laid with and enjoy yourself. It sounds to me like you need it to make yourself feel better.

Oh really but it did help me sucka. And I was over it and thread died down but someone wanted an update

No he did no pleading he was pissed off on how I delt with things. He said he wanted to move on and fix things but nothing can ever be serious between us, my brothers hate him...he can't come around my place and we'll never have a proper relationship ( I say) apparently he does cocaine all his friends do, I don't see why he wouldn't when all his friends do, I can never have a kid with this guy....it wasn't meant to be but we can remain friends I guess even tho that's not what he wants.

I'm sad for you that you think that, you'll learn the hard way. I haven't had sex with him in over a month, and who's to say that I don't want to use him too?

And I'm not saying ppl aren't happy in their marriage, I'm saying at some point (at least) there's always going to be some kind of betrayal...cheating, money, drugs. Believe me, I know stories about couples and they put on this picture perfect picture but behind closed doors it's a different story.

Nobody is happy in marriage or most relationships they just pretend, just watch Bridezillas to see how awful these people are but yet they still go ahead with the wedding. Most people are more afraid of being alone so they just put up with anything.
All the people on here having a go at you are just pissed you did not do what they told you to but they don't seem to realise you have a mind of your own and must do what you think is best for yourself not what they think is best.

Total rubbish that, my parents have been happily married for the past 38 years, really don't understand your comments there at all.

You do not know that they are happy you don't know what's being said or happening behind closed doors, just because people stay married it doesn't mean anything. Married people put on a front.

Not all of them do, there are some who are actually happily married but you cannot seem to get that into your head. To me you strike me as very jealous of people who are happy and enjoy life.

Total rubbish that, my parents have been happily married for the past 38 years, really don't understand your comments there at all.