My little dilema :)

I was going out with this girl for about a month or so, and for one reason or another, she had to go away for a month, so we couldnt see eachother. We kept in contact and i waited for when she got home. But after about a week when she came back, she decided to end our relationship. I know it was only going for a month before, but i reeeeeeeeeally liked her, and considering ive never been in a proper relationship (which is a whole other story!), it hit me pretty hard. We were good friends for a while before hand too.
So now, im here; merely days later, getting majorly miffed at everything and everyone. Ive seen her a coulpe of times since we broke up to go over stuff, and she told me she was starting to lose feelings for me and didnt want to drag me along. It sounds to me like she doesnt know what she wants or how she feels, because ive been told she goes through days where she does and then doesnt like me (confusing, i know...)

But yeah, now for the dilema. We agreed to stay friends after, because she's an awesome person and, well, quite frankly, i wanted to grab onto whatever relationship I still have with her, BUT my problem is that i can't stand seeing her. It really hurts me everytime she's around, but i want us to still be at least friends. I try and pretend im fine about it when she's around, because as far as she knows, i am. I just dunno what to do. Should i back off for a bit or what? Argh - stupid head :mad:

Reply 1

prettygreeneyes99

Yea probably best to back off for abit, but explain to her why.. am sure she'll understand

Reply 2

emzay

Yeah, if you just give it time it should become easier. She should understand that too, so if you tell her you find it hard spending time with her at the moment, she should back off a bit, and then after a while you could try being friends again.