I would date someone with Mental Illnesses. And in all honesty, would prefer to do so.
Reason being is that I have Mental Illnesses myself (OCD, Anxiety and Depression) and I feel I'd be in a better position to understand what the other person is going through.
I realize my Mental Health is pretty poor currently and everyone says a relationship is a bad idea but hey ho.
But having two people in a relationship who both have Mental Illnesses has its Pros and Cons as usual.
Pros:
- Better understanding of what the other person is experiencing
- Higher knowledge of how to help them through it
- More likely to be able to help them
- Better at providing support
Pretty much it comes down to having a better understanding of what Mental Illnesses are truely like to live with. Something which can only be experienced if you actually have them, which I hope most of you don't!
Cons:
- Can be rather stressful
- Could actually hinder recovery
- May lead to bad things (E.g. If you're both struggling one night, it might not end well)
- Will be mentally exhausting for the other person (and seeing as they're most likely mentally exhausted already, that's gonna be tricky to deal with)
- The other person is suffering themselves so will need to focus on themselves, therefore meaning that they can't be with you (although can be beneficial too)
So overall it's down to personal preference on both sides. If you're both willing to enter a relationship, fully knowing what to expect, then it should be a good one!
Just make sure that the other person knows before you announce your desire to date them
Hope this helps