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my neighbour is abusing her 3 year old son what should i do ... every morning she shouts at him calls him all the names under the sun ... im concerned
need some advise
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Call social services. Not much else you can do.
Its the only thing you can do. Besides its what they r there for.
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Shouting at the child hardly constitutes as abuse..
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Shouting at the child hardly constitutes as abuse..
Calling a three year old 'all the names under the sun' - sounds pretty bad to me
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Calling a three year old 'all the names under the sun' - sounds pretty bad to me
Not really, infact its pretty normal from where I come from
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I'd say that if you do decide to call Social Security, make sure you do it anonymously, you don't want your neighbour to start shouting abuse to you if she found out YOU were the one who called them up!
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If you don't want to contact social services you can contact the nspcc anonymously 0808 800 5000 and they will pass the details on to social services.
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I guess that will continue until the child learn to shout back,and believe me kids at that age are soo annoying,and cant saty still,you should call the services to help the mother
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I was in town one and passed this woman who was shouting at her 2 year old boy. He was crying and she shouted 'what are you? Some kind of puff?' I thought if that is what she is like in public what must she be like in private. Poor little kid. That that was a few years ago. I hope he is big enough to smack her round gob now, somehow I doubt it....
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Call social services or the NSPCC
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(Original post by imasillynarb)
Shouting at the child hardly constitutes as abuse..

yeah its normal where im from too....if all she's doing is shouting then make sure you say this when you ring social services. you dont really want to go round saying shes abusing her child when shes actually just struggling to control his behaviour.

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i dont think social services can do n e thing about it if shes swearinbg at the kid , if shes hitting him often then yeah they can ....

call em if u feel tht its getting out of hand .... dont talk to her unless u wanna hear the words " mind your own fu**ing usiness"
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my neighbour is abusing her 3 year old son what should i do ... every morning she shouts at him calls him all the names under the sun ... im concerned
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I don't see why it's any of your business. Anyway, its not like she's flogging him or anything. A little bit of verbal abuse is nothing to get excited about, I'm sure.
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I don't see why it's any of your business. Anyway, its not like she's flogging him or anything. A little bit of verbal abuse is nothing to get excited about, I'm sure.
well i think in a way it is my business when the mother is shouting at the top of her voice come on u little c--t eat ut fuc---- breakfast ...+ my 4 year n 14 year old can hear while laying in their beds
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my neighbour is abusing her 3 year old son what should i do ... every morning she shouts at him calls him all the names under the sun ... im concerned
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Is this woman okay? I think not only social services may need to be called, maybe a councillor to see her aswell.
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well i think in a way it is my business when the mother is shouting at the top of her voice come on u little c--t eat ut fuc---- breakfast ...+ my 4 year n 14 year old can hear while laying in their beds

then move house...get one with thicker walls.

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then move house...get one with thicker walls.

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You can't ignore potential abuse - this is only what can be heard by donna - who knows what happens at other times?
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then move house...get one with thicker walls.

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Don't you think that she should do something about it?
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then move house...get one with thicker walls.

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Very resourceful. Or, be such a bad neighbour that the invective-spouters next-door have no choice but to move themselves to another neighbourhood. Just make living next door to you completely insufferable (to get you started: hose pipe through letter box, film pornographic videos noisily in the back garden, smash garden ornaments with a spade, be creative ).
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then move house...get one with thicker walls.

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easer said then dun
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