Girlfriend/boyfriend Stealer

Reply 40

Well, I "stole" my current boyfriend in that I kissed him, knowing that he had a girlfriend at that point in time. However, their relationship had been stale for a while. He split up with her the next day and we've been together ever since (almost 2 years).

I don't feel guilty because he wanted to be with me, and they would have broken up anyway. Also, she never found out (to my knowledge) that he cheated on her - if she had, I might have felt a bit guilty because it's not nice to know you've been cheated on.

Reply 41

DodgyTrousers

7

pixiechick

Well, I "stole" my current boyfriend in that I kissed him, knowing that he had a girlfriend at that point in time. However, their relationship had been stale for a while. He split up with her the next day and we've been together ever since (almost 2 years).

I don't feel guilty because he wanted to be with me, and they would have broken up anyway. Also, she never found out (to my knowledge) that he cheated on her - if she had, I might have felt a bit guilty because it's not nice to know you've been cheated on.

Exactly yes. If he was that happy with his woman and didn't want to risk it, it would never have happened. Contrary to popular belief, men can keep it in their trousers if they want to :smile:

The only exception would be if the other half knows what he's doing, but doesn't mind.

Reply 42

bunthulhu

14

I've never 'pilfered', I think it's horribly wrong, although I think my last boyfriend's ex may have broken up with him partly because she thought he fancied me (he didn't), but they'd only been together about a week :rolleyes:

Various girls tried stealing him off me, one would have succeeded but fortunately for me he thought she was 'chubby' when they met in person, most others lived too far away, one girl succeeded in getting him to break up with me but he soon realised she wasn't worth it, and another would have had her way but she changed her mind and decided she didn't like him after all. I wish one of them had succeeded really, then I wouldn't have had to put up with the pig for so long (I was clueless about all but one of them at the time).

Ultimately if someone is going to cheat on their partner they will anyway, but for someone to actually come in and try and make it happen, I think that is just about the lowest thing. I don't believe there could ever be any excuse for me to do anything with anyone else's boyfriend, let alone try, regardless of how his relationship with his girlfriend is going because that wouldn't be any of my business. If he wasn't happy he should have ended it, simple. Him not being happy with his girlfriend doesn't make it okay for me to try it on with him.

Reply 43

Anonymous #2

Chumbaniya

Now that's exactly the kind of deceit that would make it a situation in which the 'stealer' (you) is to blame. If I was the guy you'd maligned, I'd be livid. I very much hope the girl found out you were spreading lies to split her relationship up and dropped you like a stone.

not quite, i did this the same week her mother told me he'd been dancing/cuddling another girl at the same party his gf was attending.

i just made it look like he was messing her around twice in one week.....

Girlfriend/boyfriend Stealer

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