At what age did you have your first serious relationship?

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At what age did you have your first serious relationship?

choco6

1

in addition to my other poll lol
oops forgot to add NEVER

Reply 1

Wild Thing

11

Hmmm hard to answer really, define serious. I've had lots of dates that lasted a few weeks, but I dont know if that would classify as a serious relationship...

Reply 2

BlibBlob

I've had two serious relationships...my first started when I was 15 and it lasted for 2 years, the second when I was 18, and it lasted 4.5 months

Reply 3

choco6

OP

1

Wild Thing

Hmmm hard to answer really, define serious. I've had lots of dates that lasted a few weeks, but I dont know if that would classify as a serious relationship...

only you can know how serious you were with the guys!

Reply 4

*Mike*

11

Never

Reply 5

angel156

how long does serious mean

Reply 6

ciara

13

My first one started on my 15th birthday and lasted for over a year. He was 17. In some ways I regret it now, it did teach me a lot but the break up was MESSY, and I was just too young.

Reply 7

Tufts

17

16 for me. Lasted just over a year.

Reply 8

Tufts

17

ciara

My first one started on my 15th birthday and lasted for over a year. He was 17. In some ways I regret it now, it did teach me a lot but the break up was MESSY, and I was just too young.

Messy? Care to share?

Reply 9

ciara

13

Tufts

Messy? Care to share?

He went off to uni, we ended up breaking up - fine in itself, but it was more the him shouting and crying anytime I went near another man, punching holes in his university door/walls, and eventually refusing to speak to me/my friends for 2 years (and whenever meeting someone I vaguely knew saying "can you please not mention Ciara"). Aaa scary.

Reply 10

red_Rose

1

I was 16 and i stayed with him for two and a half years :smile:

we're not together anymore but we're still good friends.

Reply 11

choco6

OP

1

ciara

He went off to uni, we ended up breaking up - fine in itself, but it was more the him shouting and crying anytime I went near another man, punching holes in his university door/walls, and eventually refusing to speak to me/my friends for 2 years (and whenever meeting someone I vaguely knew saying "can you please not mention Ciara"). Aaa scary.

Reply 12

CheesyBeans

1

I was 18 when I met my boyfriend.

Reply 13

Tufts

17

ciara

He went off to uni, we ended up breaking up - fine in itself, but it was more the him shouting and crying anytime I went near another man, punching holes in his university door/walls, and eventually refusing to speak to me/my friends for 2 years (and whenever meeting someone I vaguely knew saying "can you please not mention Ciara"). Aaa scary.

Ouch. Sounds like you had a lucky escape. Possessive men scare me.

Reply 14

ciara

13

Tufts

Ouch. Sounds like you had a lucky escape. Possessive men scare me.

Hehe the funny thing is, some time into my first year at uni, after 2 years of ignoring my existence, I got an email from him saying "alright, hows it going?" sort of thing. I guess it took him years to stop being insane. We're now actually friends, meet up for a drink now and then. After all that time apart I have no idea how we ever went out, I can't imagine it now. Ah well, you live and learn!

Reply 15

randdom

20

I was 14 when i got into my first relationship it lasted for two years and he was a nasty piece of work

Reply 16

Yellowmarshmellow

I was 14 and it lasted 4 months, we broke up because he kept pressuring me to sleep with him and i was like errrr scuse me i'm 14 bit young :|

Reply 17

coolershaka

ciara

Hehe the funny thing is, some time into my first year at uni, after 2 years of ignoring my existence, I got an email from him saying "alright, hows it going?" sort of thing. I guess it took him years to stop being insane. We're now actually friends, meet up for a drink now and then. After all that time apart I have no idea how we ever went out, I can't imagine it now. Ah well, you live and learn!

I must admit that I was a bit like this in my early 20s. I used to get utterly destroyed when a relationship ends, so I know how it feels. People do mature over time.