My girlfriend and I have been going out for about 4 months, she's told me on multiple occasions that she wants to go on holiday in the summer without me but with 2 other lads that used to have a thing for her. She insists that they're her best mates and that she's always had lad mates, which is true, but I think it seems a bit disrespectful to do this,but also it seems that she has more fun with these other lads than she does with me. I'm really not sure whether she likes spending time with me at all anymore, everyou time I suggest something she says "maybe" or "ill see".
My mates all think it's weird and I don't think any of them are too fond of her or her antics.