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relationship dilema

basically this girl who i barely know, just broke up with her boyfriend. i met her a while ago and have spoken to her a couple of times since. the attraction is obviously there on both our parts, with constant flirting etc. when should i make a move? without it looking too obvious. or maybe i should see how things pen out for a bit first?

am i right in thinking moving too quickly will only result in a pants outcome?
Reply 1
Maybe get to know her as a friend, if she has broken up with a boyfriend recently she might not be ready to rush straight into another one.
Agreed, think you need to get to know her more first.
Yep, get to know her and give it some time so she can get over her break up etc.

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Reply 4
It depends on how long her last relationship was as well.
Since she just got out of a relationship, I would give it a little time. But start to get to know her. Ask her about her hobbies, interests and find things that you have in common. After a while, you can make your move. :smile:
Reply 6
Don't go there, I got with my ex like two weeks after finishing a long term realtionship and truthfully he was the re-bound guy and we're currently not even on speaking terms as he thinks I'm a complete biatch now! So yeah, give her some time to sort herself out just be her friend and don't try to push her into anything x