Hi, so I'm currently living in campus accommodation (1st year) with a fairly large group that I get on well with in general.
We've already sorted groups for accommodation, I'll be living with a few other males, and I'm male myself. I've already signed the contract and put down deposit etc.
Basically I did feel fine about it, but I'm not sure anymore that I get on with them that well. They're nice enough and I know they don't make me, but I get the sense that they like each other/get on better with each other than they do with me. For example when together they will sometime not acknowledge what i say or ignore me.
I know they don't do it on purpose or to be mean, as I say they are decent, but I guess I'm the odd one out a bit, as I'm a little less outgoing and confident than they are. Almost like they don't respect me as much (guess this sounds stupid).
Essentially I'm just not that close to them, especially compared to my old friends from college (who I miss a lot), they just don't get me as much. I feel like I could be dropped and they wouldn't honestly care that much. I also think I would prefer to live in a mixed flat rather than all males, as it is now at my uni accommodation.
So I'm not really sure what I can or should do. Should I just suck it up and live with them for a year, and try get different accommodation for 3rd and 4th year? Is it worth trying to find something else, and they could get someone to replace me in their house?
Thanks all, and sorry for the really long post.