Geting that girl HELP

ive realy liked this girl for so long now, she used to openly admit she had feelings for me but i stupidly never went any further, we are still close tho. i just need two things.

1.how do i find out if she likes me still in that way?
2.how do i get her to like me in that way again if she doesnt

oh and please dont just say "ask her" or "talk to her" it realy isnt any help lol

Reply 1

PeeWeeDan

15

Subtle hints. I tend to find when shes talking about other guys feigning/being really jealous may make her aware of your intentions, and hint back. But you may find hint identifying hard

Reply 2

andy_cole2

14

hahaha i been here loads of times u probs left it too late to realise you like her even though she was laying it on thick that she liked you and now your desperately trying to find signs that she still likes you which maybe she does maybe she doesn't but if your suddenly having to re-evaluate the situation it seems like she's got bored of liking you cos u never acted on it and now you would act its too late. sucks to be a guy :tongue:

Reply 3

orbelina

craig123222

2.how do i get her to like me in that way again if she doesnt

I don't think you can :frown:

If she doesn't still have feelings for you i don't think theres anything you can do. I know you say talking to her is no good but im sorry, that really is the most accurate way to find out if she still likes you!

Reply 4

Wez

14

DanielIvtsan

Subtle hints. I tend to find when shes talking about other guys feigning/being really jealous may make her aware of your intentions, and hint back. But you may find hint identifying hard

This also makes you clingy and desperate so don't do it. :smile:

There's tonnes of stuff on here about how to get a g/f. Search the forum a bit- there's far too much for me to even attempt to type it out.

Reply 5

craig123222

OP

orbelina

I don't think you can :frown:

If she doesn't still have feelings for you i don't think theres anything you can do. I know you say talking to her is no good but im sorry, that really is the most accurate way to find out if she still likes you!

well what would i say to her then? to find out if she still likes me?

Reply 6

Bedshaped

14

Tell her that you will ask her out as a joke one day when she least expects it and ask her what she would say.

If she says she would say "yes" if it was a joke, ask her and then when she says yes, tell her that you are now officially going out and kiss her,

Pretty easy imo.

Reply 7

rocketboy86

5

ask her.

sorry i had to.

yes, play the mind games with her-they always work :biggrin:

Reply 8

josh2716

craig123222

ive realy liked this girl for so long now, she used to openly admit she had feelings for me but i stupidly never went any further, we are still close tho. i just need two things.

1.how do i find out if she likes me still in that way?
2.how do i get her to like me in that way again if she doesnt

oh and please dont just say "ask her" or "talk to her" it realy isnt any help lol

Drop yer pants and she if she looks keen. If she doesn't watch some porn together to put her in the mood!

Reply 9

orbelina

huh? in this thread your asking for advice on how to get the girl, but you've got another thread asking how to initiate oral sex with your girlfriend?! Is it the same girl?

Reply 10

supersteiger

Bedshaped

Tell her that you will ask her out as a joke one day when she least expects it and ask her what she would say.

If she says she would say "yes" if it was a joke, ask her and then when she says yes, tell her that you are now officially going out and kiss her,

Pretty easy imo.

Nooo! Someone once said that to me, and it was just a hideously embarrassing moment, not cute at all (clearly I said no) ... mind you, it would be nice if she did say yes, but that kind of defeats the point of the fishing thing, right?

Reply 11

*Sparkle*

17

Ask her mates! Or get your mates to dig around a bit for you.

Or get her drunk, but probably not the best idea.

Reply 12

JC.

19

craig123222

oh and please dont just say "ask her" or "talk to her" it realy isnt any help lol

Sorry pal, but the reality of the matter is you arnt going to get answers from anyone on here.
The only person that can tell you what she is thinking is her.

Reply 13

ISH

9

andy_cole2

hahaha i been here loads of times u probs left it too late to realise you like her even though she was laying it on thick that she liked you and now your desperately trying to find signs that she still likes you which maybe she does maybe she doesn't but if your suddenly having to re-evaluate the situation it seems like she's got bored of liking you cos u never acted on it and now you would act its too late. sucks to be a guy :tongue:

You simply restated what was posted in the original post. Have a cookie.

Spoiler

Reply 14

PeeWeeDan

15

Wez

This also makes you clingy and desperate so don't do it. :smile:

There's tonnes of stuff on here about how to get a g/f. Search the forum a bit- there's far too much for me to even attempt to type it out.

Cute jealous, not clingy jealous :smile:

Reply 15

DodgyTrousers

7

Unpopular answer time :

DON'T act jealous at her and chase. From my experience, there's generally no faster way to make a women tease you into oblivion. Get another girlfriend, or at least openly obsess about another woman at her. Let her get jealous instead (if she's going to) and satisfy her need to claim you when it manifests.

I chased a woman (like a pillock) for nearly a year while she went through other men. I finally gave up (despite being in love) and starting persuing other women. As soon as I had other interest, she was all on me like white on rice.

Learn from my mistake.

Reply 16

ßlαcksωαn

17

ISH

You simply restated what was posted in the original post. Have a cookie.

Spoiler

haha you're such a smarty sometimes :p:

OP:

"talk to her" it realy isnt any help

No offence but if you're not prepared to talk to her then you have no hope in hell. How long as it been since she said she liked you? she probably still does...

Reply 17

Profesh

20

craig123222

ive realy liked this girl for so long now, she used to openly admit she had feelings for me but i stupidly never went any further, we are still close tho. i just need two things.

1.how do i find out if she likes me still in that way?
2.how do i get her to like me in that way again if she doesnt

oh and please dont just say "ask her" or "talk to her" it realy isnt any help lol

No. Please. The prospect of your reproducing is altogether too horrifying for me to contemplate.

Reply 18

shauny

Christing hell, just ask her the **** out. What's so hard about that? It doesn't matter about finding out if she still likes you, because you'll find out when you ask her out. Her answer to your offer will give you a pretty good idea :biggrin:

Other advice here is reasonable, but just do what I said, anything else is making things more complicated than they need to be.

..shauny

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