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    as in for "cybering" or whatever. Is that cheating on your partner?
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    (Original post by rednirt)
    as in for "cybering" or whatever. Is that cheating on your partner?
    well yeah, how far are you gonna take it? i mean just cos its probably a group of uni students on the other end taking the piss, we used to do it, we led sad lives, doesn't make it ok.
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    (Original post by rednirt)
    as in for "cybering" or whatever. Is that cheating on your partner?
    I would consider it cheating. But I think different people have different views on it really
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    yes.

    please make sure this thread doesnt get inapropriate for kids.....

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    (Original post by ickle_katy)
    yes.

    please make sure this thread doesnt get inapropriate for kids.....
    don't worry, its not for the horny likes... i was just wondering what people thought.

    I mean, its not like you know the people or are actually there with them, they're just helping you along abit lol :rolleyes:
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    (Original post by rednirt)
    don't worry, its not for the horny likes... i was just wondering what people thought.

    I mean, its not like you know the people or are actually there with them, they're just helping you along abit lol :rolleyes:

    but surely our girlfriend would get worked up if you were txting someone else? so whats the difference?
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    (Original post by rednirt)
    as in for "cybering" or whatever. Is that cheating on your partner?
    :eek: i've seen a different side of you!

    nah, i think its alright.
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    (Original post by Swim By)
    :eek: i've seen a different side of you!

    nah, i think its alright.
    its a bit seedy though isn't it?
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    (Original post by Vladek)
    but surely our girlfriend would get worked up if you were txting someone else? so whats the difference?
    hmm, but that would imply you knew the person a bit (at least enough to get a number). Using the net seems like a completely impersonal way of doing things... when my boyfriend wakes up I'll ask him too.

    been discussing this with friends and we're split 50/50 as to it being a right and wrong thing.
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    (Original post by Vladek)
    its a bit seedy though isn't it?
    not if the other person is willing... being seedy would imply that one person is pperving/enjoying it more than the other.
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    (Original post by Vladek)
    its a bit seedy though isn't it?
    what you mean "seedy" ?
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    (Original post by rednirt)
    hmm, but that would imply you knew the person a bit (at least enough to get a number). Using the net seems like a completely impersonal way of doing things... when my boyfriend wakes up I'll ask him too.

    been discussing this with friends and we're split 50/50 as to it being a right and wrong thing.
    Oh Boyfriend, my apologys, yeah well if he says its ok then theres no problem for you guys there, but i think it'd be wrong to go behind his back and start chatting people up on the net. Still a bit seedy
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    but its just like using a prostitute - you dont need to know they're name even....

    love KAty ***
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    (Original post by Swim By)
    what you mean "seedy" ?
    i mean its just seedy, bit pervy, why not just find a real person and not just some words on the screen for that?
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    (Original post by Vladek)
    Oh Boyfriend, my apologys, yeah well if he says its ok then theres no problem for you guys there, but i think it'd be wrong to go behind his back and start chatting people up on the net. Still a bit seedy
    lol - err, i never said i did it this is just more of a reasoned debate. Its like how i agree with fox hunting yet don't go out an do it etc etc
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    (Original post by Vladek)
    i mean its just seedy, bit pervy, why not just find a real person and not just some words on the screen for that?
    because you dont see the person and theres no physical contact. i think as long as ntohing come of it then its fine.
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    (Original post by rednirt)
    lol - err, i never said i did it this is just more of a reasoned debate. Its like how i agree with fox hunting yet don't go out an do it etc etc
    Oh so you're not looking to justify your seedy internet useage then

    Don't get me started on Fox hunting
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    (Original post by Swim By)
    because you dont see the person and theres no physical contact. i think as long as ntohing come of it then its fine.
    What about phone sex? no physical contact and i guess you don't have to know the other person, is that right?
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    no I dont think it is. I would never do it and I would find it very odd if my partner did but it just like a virtual prono isn't it? You don't have physical contact with the person, you don't know who they really are and to be honest you don't care. It all about a moment. I would compare it to masturbating over pornographic material. Its better to do something like that then sleep around anyway. But if someone does it they need to adress the issues of why they do it if they have a partner and if their partner really makes them happy
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    (Original post by Vladek)
    Oh so you're not looking to justify your seedy internet useage then

    Don't get me started on Fox hunting
    dunno about fox hunting but I drag hunt.
 
 
 
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