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    (Original post by Vladek)
    Oh so you're not looking to justify your seedy internet useage then

    Don't get me started on Fox hunting
    lol - i was a member of the debate club - and always won from arguing the losing side.

    I just don't see how using the resource, which could be akin to looking at picture you find online, or watching the channels on Sky etc is so wrong. You don't meet the person, you don't know them and you'd only do it when your partner isn't with you or you have no-one but fancy some DIY.
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    (Original post by sublime_envy)
    dunno about fox hunting but I drag hunt.
    i'm not against hunting, just against using insane amounts of dogs, horses and people to hunt down one fox.
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    (Original post by Vladek)
    What about phone sex? no physical contact and i guess you don't have to know the other person, is that right?
    i dont think thats cheating either. but it'll probably mean the partner is not "satisfying" enough. you know..
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    (Original post by rednirt)
    lol - i was a member of the debate club - and always won from arguing the losing side.

    I just don't see how using the resource, which could be akin to looking at picture you find online, or watching the channels on Sky etc is so wrong. You don't meet the person, you don't know them and you'd only do it when your partner isn't with you or you have no-one but fancy some DIY.

    ok ok i see what you're saying its totally anoymous, but what if you get chatting to this person, get to know them, what if they want to meet you?
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    (Original post by Swim By)
    i dont think thats cheating either. but it'll probably mean the partner is not "satisfying" enough. you know..

    So basically its ok as long as you don't know the person?
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    How can cyber sex be cheating? Youre using words, its the same reading an erotic thriller.
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    (Original post by Vladek)
    ok ok i see what you're saying its totally anoymous, but what if you get chatting to this person, get to know them, what if they want to meet you?
    the you go, "errr, no thanks". IMHO i don't think many peeps would go to such a chat room style thing to chat about the weather, although i acknowlegde that some people may be using it to strike up relationships. You would just have to be wise about the situation yourself.
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    (Original post by imasillynarb)
    How can cyber sex be cheating? Youre using words, its the same reading an erotic thriller.
    agreed. there is no physical contact
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    (Original post by imasillynarb)
    How can cyber sex be cheating? Youre using words, its the same reading an erotic thriller.
    yeah, like Mills and Boon - incidentally, a woman at work i know reads them in the canteen at lunch. Very odd women lol
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    how do u know its not a perverted old man pretending to be sumone who looks like pam anderson ? ... feels kida sick to me actually
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    (Original post by infekt)
    how do u know its not a perverted old man pretending to be sumone who looks like pam anderson ? ... feels kida sick to me actually
    you don't. but i imagine so long as you were none the wiser it wouldn't be a problem.
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    (Original post by sublime_envy)
    agreed. there is no physical contact
    its not comparable to porn cos porn is one way really same as books, but surely when theres 2 way interaction its different?
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    (Original post by rednirt)
    you don't. but i imagine so long as you were none the wiser it wouldn't be a problem.
    doesnt change the fact tht hes getting a hardon talking to u *shivers*
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    (Original post by infekt)
    how do u know its not a perverted old man pretending to be sumone who looks like pam anderson ? ... feels kida sick to me actually
    dunno whats worst pamela anderson or the dirty old man, both make me heave!
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    (Original post by infekt)
    doesnt change the fact tht hes getting a hardon talking to u *shivers*
    different strokes for sifferent folks.

    and no, that wasn't meant to be an intentional pun. i apologise.
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    (Original post by rednirt)
    different strokes for sifferent folks.

    and no, that wasn't meant to be an intentional pun. i apologise.
    Bad puns should be a crime.
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    (Original post by Vladek)
    So basically its ok as long as you don't know the person?
    no, its ok as long as theres no contact with the person and it aint gonan lead to anything.
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    (Original post by Vladek)
    Bad puns should be a crime.
    probably yes. But i did apologise!
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    (Original post by Swim By)
    no, its ok as long as theres no contact with the person and it aint gonan lead to anything.
    but if you don't tell your partner its still cheating really, if you always talk to the same person.
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    (Original post by Swim By)
    no, its ok as long as theres no contact with the person and it aint gonan lead to anything.
    its not exaclty cheating , but id be pretty pissed off if i knew my girlfriend was cybering with someone .
 
 
 
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