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Can you explain kissing with tongues?

WEll, says it all in the title really. I just don't understand the 'mechanics' especially of what you do with your lips. Not really sure how I can put that in a better way but, yeah, any explanation appreciated :p:

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Reply 1

Lucy_88

Umm well i dont really know it just comes naturally, i was like you before i had kissed anybody but really when it happens you just know what to do.

Reply 2

sallymc9000

its hard to explain, you just have to try for yourself it will just come naturally.
most of the time i prefer kissing without tongues though.

Reply 3

halfoflessthan50p

Just do what the other person does. You could probably find a video on youtube

Reply 4

Dollaleigh

id say just do it with someone and you'll find out for yourself. its not hard :smile:

(i dont mean that to sound patronising)

Reply 5

Jacket Potato

Cant really follow the lead as boy friend is not experience in such matters either!

Reply 6

sallymc9000

no it probably will be hard when your kissing for the first time...ahem lol.

Reply 7

randomgirl

Don't worry about it, it'll come naturally. Just kiss their lips and gradually caress their tongue with yours..it's hard to explain because it seems so natural lol. You'll be fine :smile:

Reply 8

prettygreeneyes99

Haha I used to worry about this when I was younger! But it does come naturally :smile:

Reply 9

Tailz

i actually got my friend to teach me coz i was that worried lol but theres really nothing to worry about, it comes naturally.

Reply 10

sallymc9000

practise on your hand.

Reply 11

Lucy_88

To be honest the first time i kissed someone it was a shock but thats only cos he shoved as much toungue in as he possibly could. Luckily not everyone does that :biggrin:

Reply 12

Meliae

Jacket Potato

Cant really follow the lead as boy friend is not experience in such matters either!

The first guy I kissed it was his first kiss too and it just came naturally. Seeing as you already have a boyfriend, why not try it with him and work it out?

Reply 13

Joanna May

I personally don't like it. Each to their own though. Just practise a lot?

Reply 14

blackfish

to be honest i dont think there is any real technique to such an action :p:

all i can say really is just go for it and somehow you will just know what to do, its enstinct :smile:

if you are both nervous i suggest going somewhere where nobody is around and some as well where you will not be disturbed lol and you may find it easier as nobody will be there to laugh at you/make fun of you (sorry if that sounded at all mean)

also, dont do it in the bathroom, it can look kinda dodgey :p:

Hope that helps

Reply 15

Ang|ophi|e

As many have said, it's something that comes naturally. Just don't open your mouth the whole way cuz then the other person's tongue will be down your throat. :biggrin:

Reply 16