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i dont know whether i should feel bad about my foot fetish... i have a gf and she doesnt know that i have one.. neither does anyone else... i mean i never really seen my gf's feet etc or freinds feet and i have a 'normal' sex life lol but i sometimes masturbate while thinking about feet and i feel bad coz i see it as a cheating on my gf ... is it ?
im confused about it all !

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Reply 1
Dude, there's nothing to worry bout'. The feet fetish is on the tamer side of fetishes and you shouldn't really dwell upon it. Now, if you said your fetish was eating pubes, then we would have a problem.


It's normal.
Reply 2
It's not cheating unless you are thinking about other peoples feet :wink:
No reason to tell anyone about it except for your girlfriend. It's a pretty personal thing that could be worth exploring in a relationship, but it's not really anyone elses business.
It's really not anything to be ashamed of. Other people like funny stuff too, they just don't tell you. Even if you like something more mainstream, like doggy style or whatever, and that gets you off, it's still pretty much a fetish isn't it?

As for thinking about feet, and it making you unfaithful, don't be ridiculous. It's not even an issue if you think about someone elses feet ffs, it's in your head.

Actually masturbating ONTO someone else (other than your gfs) feet would be cheating yes.

Now honestly, in your position I wouldn't tell her. You don't need to and I think that sort of thing is only ok to explore in a loving relationship thats going to be around for a while. If you two are relatively new to each other, that's probably going to seem a bit scary. I don't personally have anything like that though, so I can't be sure.
Reply 5
Why don't you just tell your gf that you have a feet fetish and would like to see her feet and be able to play with her feet more often? That way, your fetish gets satisfied and you have no worries about whether it's cheating or not.
Its quite common actually, you can't control what turns you on. Ive never told anyone and I dont think i could, but I have a pee fetish about both genders
Reply 7
Don't worry. There are far worse fetishes out there like...I don't want to explain them.

*shudder*
RosiePosiePuddingAndPie
Why don't you try talking to your girlfriend about it? If she's ok with feet (some people have the opposite of a foot fetish, and don't like them being touched or anything!!) then you could maybe play with her feet and stuff.

And no, thinking about feet when you masturbate isn't cheating.
In fact, thinking about another woman while you masturbate in general isn't cheating, although I wouldn't tell you girlfriend if you do that, cos she might not be best pleased about that one :p:


I got evils for thinking about another woman WITH my gf when I first mentioned it :confused:

At first anyway :wink:
DodgyTrousers
I got evils for thinking about another woman WITH my gf when I first mentioned it :confused:


As would my boyfriend, but it's still not technically cheating :p:


Also, has anyone else heard of the balloon fetish some people have (not me, I'd like to add!!). Basically they rub themselves with a balloon, and popping it gives them an orgasm or summat. :p: Fun times!
Reply 10
Personally I don't think there's anything wrong with it as long as you keep it to yourself. I'm a dancer and i've seen some guys approach young girls on a forum i'm a member of and ask them to record videos of their feet, that's pretty sick IMO, because there are plenty of adults who'll willingly record this stuff (searching for ballet videos brings up a ton of them, I have no idea why) so as long as you're not approaching minors I think it's perfectly fine and nothing for you or your girlfriend to be worried about.
Reply 11
i love feet me!!!
they turn me right on they do
i especially love cheesy smelling feet.. mmm
Reply 12
there's nothing wrong with the odd fetish.
personally I like elbows and wrists
Reply 13
you're not cheating. unless cheating is actually a subjective thing too now because then if you FEEL like you're cheating then you are but don't worry, generally you're not

that made no sense

i don't have a fetish. i want one. someone pick one for me
ph9
you're not cheating. unless cheating is actually a subjective thing too now because then if you FEEL like you're cheating then you are but don't worry, generally you're not

that made no sense

i don't have a fetish. i want one. someone pick one for me


False teeth.
Reply 15
shinyhappy
False teeth.


phwoarrr, oh baby
How on earth can you not have really seen your girlfriend's feet? How long have you been going out?
ph9
phwoarrr, oh baby


I just tried to find you some porn on google... but it would seem that false-teeth fetishism is somewhat of a niche market :frown:
Reply 18
shinyhappy
I just tried to find you some porn on google... but it would seem that false-teeth fetishism is somewhat of a niche market :frown:


man, what a shame. never mind, i'll just have to find something else to fetish over :frown:
Reply 19
nowt wrong with a fetish. fantasise about feet as much as you want, they're in your own head its not like they're projected onto a big screen and your girlfriend will see what you're gettin excited over. its actually not even a that uncommon fetish, loads of people love feet. just hope shes not one of those feet-phobic people lol.

and its not cheating lol. apparantly a very high percentage of people dont even think about their partners while getting themselves off.