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    Im 17 and for the past 3 months i have been going out with this girl, she was absolutly amazing and i completly fell for her. Although earlier today she left me and i feel crushed, it was only a short relationship but it was my first gf (yeah ik im lonely) and i told her i loved her way too soon.

    I havnt spoke to her since but i need her back, does anybody have any methods of getting back lost girlfriends?
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    - Why did u guys break up?
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    You have to remind yourself that you can't force someone to love you. Can you tell us in detail how the split happened?
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    Yes. Ignore her, don't text her nothing. Let her miss you and come to you.
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    Only hope is let the dust settle and be completely nonchalant. But have to tell you Kate and Will style reconciliations are rare.
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    Yes. Ignore her, don't text her nothing. Let her miss you and come to you.
    So he should text her something?
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    (Original post by starshine909)
    - Why did u guys break up?
    Well she gave me a bunch of bull lines 'its not you its me' 'i like us as friends' but i think its because i came on way too strong and intense
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    Bhainga Paagal Bhrata, this thread is 4 u 2 get ur kuttis back
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    Why did she leave u ?

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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    Yes. Ignore her, don't text her nothing. Let her miss you and come to you.
    Alright thankyou, i met her at work tho so from next week i will be seeing her once a week
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    I hope you're aware that if she doesn't want to come back to you, she won't, even if you give her the moon and a room full of roses.
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    (Original post by Rudders-ahrt)
    Well she gave me a bunch of bull lines 'its not you its me' 'i like us as friends' but i think its because i came on way too strong and intense
    I see, well, move on...she made it clear that she's no longer interested.

    Dw, you'll find someone better
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    cut out her spinal cord and take it.
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    (Original post by CarysJSLewis)
    You have to remind yourself that you can't force someone to love you. Can you tell us in detail how the split happened?
    I get that and i think that was the problem, she had me sit in a park with her and she gave me a bunch of basic breakup lines. She did say that she only loved me as a friend
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    (Original post by Euler's Identity)
    Bhainga Paagal Bhrata, this thread is 4 u 2 get ur kuttis back
    I try and try 2 get my kuttis back bt they no want to kno :cry:
    I will use ppls advice frm here now
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    (Original post by Rudders-ahrt)
    I get that and i think that was the problem, she had me sit in a park with her and she gave me a bunch of basic breakup lines. She did say that she only loved me as a friend
    Do you think you could just be friends with her?
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    (Original post by Bhainga Paagal)
    I try and try 2 get my kuttis back bt they no want to kno :cry:
    I will use ppls advice frm here now
    I vil also do same
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    (Original post by CarysJSLewis)
    Do you think you could just be friends with her?
    No, at this point i want it all or nothing, maybe later on
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    (Original post by Supernova91)
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    Think it was because i was just too intense in the relationship
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    You can't force someone to come back to you, the only option is to not talk to her and move on. I wouldn't bother taking her back, ex is an ex for a reason.
 
 
 
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