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    (Original post by cambio wechsel)
    tell it to her Malaprop former boyfriend, she's only reporting what he said. Like when my then-girlfriend said I needed viagra for my "impertinence" LOL!




    Mods: obviously anon or delete.
    It must be my finicky nature when it comes to definitions!

    and impertinence! Haha! You should seek processional help! :P
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    (Original post by SonoLuma)
    PRUDE - a person who is or claims to be easily shocked by matters relating to sex or nudity.

    Edit: It really seems like all you want to do is rant and badmouth this guy. thats your prerogative, but it really solves nothing, in fact it probably will make things worse.
    A prude is someone who won't take risks and is square, lives in a box. That's how we use that word.

    Yes all I want to do is rant here so that I don't give him any satisfaction of giving him the time of day. So yah for ME it does solve something, what will actually make things worse is entertaining him and feeling the need to defend myself to a crackwhore.(him)
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    (Original post by SonoLuma)
    I saw your comment as trying to help too. This girl has a really confusing way of going about things. Your advice is literally one of the only things that can resolve the situation how she claims to want to sort it out...

    But then resorts to threats herself. a la "body checking" someone (Im not sure she even knows what she means by that!)

    Clearly she really does want the drama. How confusing.
    Do u know what body checking is?

    I'm Canadian I know damn well what it means. I know what I'm talking about.
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    Do u know what body checking is?

    I'm Canadian I know damn well what it means. I know what I'm talking about.
    You've shattered my image of Canadian girls being girl scouts.
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    A prude is someone who won't take risks and is square, lives in a box. That's how we use that word.

    Yes all I want to do is rant here so that I don't give him any satisfaction of giving him the time of day. So yah for ME it does solve something, what will actually make things worse is entertaining him and feeling the need to defend myself to a crackwhore.(him)
    Fair enough, but a lot of people will get the wrong meaning from you, as it does mean the sexual thing.

    (Original post by xobeauty)
    Do u know what body checking is?

    I'm Canadian I know damn well what it means. I know what I'm talking about.
    You should calm down. Yes I do know what it means. Which is why I was pointing out that you are also being threatening by saying you feel like doing it to someone. Try to imagine how you are appearing on this thread, you are calling this druggy guy out for being threatening, while also using threatening language.

    If you want to rant and get things off your chest, thats ok. But the way you are doing it (also getting snarky at people for trying to offer some actual helpful advice to you) isnt going to solve anything.

    As I say, if you feel its going to solve the problem, rant your heart out (I think it will just keep riling you up more and more). But remember that the person youre angry with is this guy, and not random people on the internet.
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    (Original post by SonoLuma)
    Fair enough, but a lot of people will get the wrong meaning from you, as it does mean the sexual thing.



    You should calm down. Yes I do know what it means. Which is why I was pointing out that you are also being threatening by saying you feel like doing it to someone. Try to imagine how you are appearing on this thread, you are calling this druggy guy out for being threatening, while also using threatening language.

    If you want to rant and get things off your chest, thats ok. But the way you are doing it (also getting snarky at people for trying to offer some actual helpful advice to you) isnt going to solve anything.

    As I say, if you feel its going to solve the problem, rant your heart out (I think it will just keep riling you up more and more). But remember that the person youre angry with is this guy, and not random people on the internet.
    The people I'm being snarky to who are offering advice come off as know it alls " oh all you have to do is..." , like an attitude like your dumb or something.
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    The people I'm being snarky to who are offering advice come off as know it alls " oh all you have to do is..." , like an attitude like your dumb or something.
    I'm afraid you're not going to get very far in life with that outlook. If you turn on the people who are genuinely trying to help you, don't expect them to bother with you again.
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    (Original post by CarysJSLewis)
    I'm afraid you're not going to get very far in life with that outlook. If you turn on the people who are genuinely trying to help you, don't expect them to bother with you again.
    But they aren't trying to help if your actually read their tone...


    Anyway. Not the point of the thread.
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    The people I'm being snarky to who are offering advice come off as know it alls " oh all you have to do is..." , like an attitude like your dumb or something.
    "Well it's pretty simple then. Screenshot the threats and take it to the police"

    Is clearly not the same as "oh, all you have to do is..."

    And why should it matter what tone its given in? If someone gives you good advice in a tone you dont like, that doesnt mean its automatically bad advice. Besides the fact that tone is impossible to discern over the internet, someone offered you genuine advice in a way that was more "well, it is clear what you should do based on your descriptions of events" and you got snarky because you didnt see it as given in the tone you wanted?

    If you think people are "coming off as.." a certain way, how do you think you are appearing on this thread? I can say for one thing that you are surprisingly hostile based on your replies.
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    (Original post by SonoLuma)
    "Well it's pretty simple then. Screenshot the threats and take it to the police"

    Is clearly not the same as "oh, all you have to do is..."

    And why should it matter what tone its given in? If someone gives you good advice in a tone you dont like, that doesnt mean its automatically bad advice. Besides the fact that tone is impossible to discern over the internet, someone offered you genuine advice in a way that was more "well, it is clear what you should do based on your descriptions of events" and you got snarky because you didnt see it as given in the tone you wanted?

    If you think people are "coming off as.." a certain way, how do you think you are appearing on this thread? I can say for one thing that you are surprisingly hostile based on your replies.
    Why are you still on irrlevant stuff?

    Stick to topic I'm not looking for a god damn debate.
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    lol he needs to block you and get help.

    You too.
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    Why are you still on irrlevant stuff?

    Stick to topic I'm not looking for a god damn debate.
    Then what are you looking for? We tried to give advice, and clearly that was unacceptable behaviour.
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    Why are you still on irrlevant stuff?

    Stick to topic I'm not looking for a god damn debate.
    lol. Wow.

    You are completely oblivious arent you?

    Well, Im going to have a coffee to start off a good day.

    Enjoy your anger and hostility. You seem like a really nice person.
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    Bruh if i was with you i'd resort to mary jane too lol
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    (Original post by TheTruthTeller)
    Bruh if i was with you i'd resort to mary jane too lol
    Sometimes I think I should be on drugs.
    In highschool it made me so much smarter cool calm and collective.
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    Do u know what body checking is?

    I'm Canadian I know damn well what it means. I know what I'm talking about.
    I thought Canadians were supposed to be polite lmao.

    (Original post by xobeauty)
    Sometimes I think I should be on drugs.
    In highschool it made me so much smarter cool calm and collective.
    Nah they **** you up trust. Even weed.
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    (Original post by SonoLuma)
    Clearly she really does want the drama. How confusing.

    How do people get custom titles on TSR?
    3 guesses what hers would be....


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    and don't waste your time giving her advice, she never takes any of it..
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      (Original post by xobeauty)
      Oh you think so.


      Then tell me why I've been ignoring his texts and calls for a good couple days.

      This guy literally tried to **** me over but this little ****er doesn't know I've always been a leader not a follower.
      Kool story braaah.
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      (Original post by xobeauty)
      He called me a prude because I won't do drugs lmfao this stupid little coke head has his brain all jacked up and thinks he can hurt my feelings by calling me a prude because I refuse to even smoke weed.

      When I first met him he said he didn't even smoke weed regularly, this guy NEEDS some sort of high, liar. Now I find out he smoke crack at least three times a week. He disses coke heads meanwhile he is one. Sigh... And he tells me a couple lines won't do anything this poor thing tries to tell me I'm messed up but really....


      These guys will try to break u lie lie lie,

      Girls listen to your gut and red flags. always.
      Why aren't you ranting on Facebook instead?
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      Girl ya need to try ritalin.

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