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So I've been with this guy in a Long Distance Relationship for almost a year now. And he is a really great guy, and I love him. Recently we haven't talked due to various of reasons and when we did talk, i went to confront him about it and how i missed him. And this lead to a mutual agreement. What I didn't expect was for him to tell me he got kissed on new years day but that was it. He apologised various of times, knowing that it hurt me, but i shrugged it off and said that i'm fine.

He said it was only a kiss any I believe him, but should this mean that I end it as he got kissed?
I would appreciate any advice because I don't know what to do, and he's coming here in August
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(Original post by Anonymous)
So I've been with this guy in a Long Distance Relationship for almost a year now. And he is a really great guy, and I love him. Recently we haven't talked due to various of reasons and when we did talk, i went to confront him about it and how i missed him. And this lead to a mutual agreement. What I didn't expect was for him to tell me he got kissed on new years day but that was it. He apologised various of times, knowing that it hurt me, but i shrugged it off and said that i'm fine.

He said it was only a kiss any I believe him, but should this mean that I end it as he got kissed?
I would appreciate any advice because I don't know what to do, and he's coming here in August
I would do as I d consider that cheating
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Idk I've had drunk girls come up and surprise kiss me at night clubs and not much you can do about it lol.
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I would do as I d consider that cheating
same but sometimes there is a difference between being kissed and kissing.

I know instances where a girl literally attacked someone with her mouth, and the guy had nothing to do with it.
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So I've been with this guy in a Long Distance Relationship for almost a year now. And he is a really great guy, and I love him. Recently we haven't talked due to various of reasons and when we did talk, i went to confront him about it and how i missed him. And this lead to a mutual agreement. What I didn't expect was for him to tell me he got kissed on new years day but that was it. He apologised various of times, knowing that it hurt me, but i shrugged it off and said that i'm fine.

He said it was only a kiss any I believe him, but should this mean that I end it as he got kissed?
I would appreciate any advice because I don't know what to do, and he's coming here in August
If he got kissed then he probably didn't expect or want that, however if he returned it then it is cheating. The fact you are asking should you leave him suggests this relationship isn't all that well. If you are going to try and mend this then you both need better communication by the sounds of it.
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So I've been with this guy in a Long Distance Relationship for almost a year now. And he is a really great guy, and I love him. Recently we haven't talked due to various of reasons and when we did talk, i went to confront him about it and how i missed him. And this lead to a mutual agreement. What I didn't expect was for him to tell me he got kissed on new years day but that was it. He apologised various of times, knowing that it hurt me, but i shrugged it off and said that i'm fine.

He said it was only a kiss any I believe him, but should this mean that I end it as he got kissed?
I would appreciate any advice because I don't know what to do, and he's coming here in August
considering its a long distance relationship and he got kissed, what makes you think he cant cheat on you?
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same but sometimes there is a difference between being kissed and kissing.

I know instances where a girl literally attacked someone with her mouth, and the guy had nothing to do with it.
He could have stepped or pushed her away or hopefully made some effort to at least
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He could have stepped or pushed her away or hopefully made some effort to at least
Of course, I agree, the OP didn't make it clear whether he did or not.
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It's up to you whether you want to stay in the relationship or not but if he did kiss someone, what's to stop him from doing it again?


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Not enough information really. Talk to him about the circumstances and whetehr it was voluntary/ with him participating. Vant get too excited about just a kiss. You could go either way.
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That's cheating. He clearly doesn't love you.

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