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    And who I am attracted to aka a lot of black men I like.

    I don't know why.

    I know it's potentially damaging to go for these guys.

    But I love the way they worship my body and are so sexual.

    Any one else?
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    (Original post by BreatheDeep)
    And who I am attracted to aka a lot of black men I like.

    I don't know why.

    I know it's potentially damaging to go for these guys.

    But I love the way they worship my body and are so sexual.

    Any one else?
    No. But go on, be a w**** if you want.
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    Cause that's not racist
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    There's nothing wrong with it.
    Objectification isn't inherently wrong.
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    Lord god of all damnation.
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    Wth? You said you're attracted to men who objectify women in the title and then you said you're attracted to a lot of black men who worship your body and want to have a lot of sex.

    You're not making any sense, do you actually know what it means to objectify women?
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    Would it be the man in your other thread by any chance?
    https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/sho....php?t=4392070

    Sounds like you're just into one man who gives you a lot of attention.
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    Objectify or worship :confused:
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    (Original post by EC)
    Wth? You said you're attracted to men who objectify women in the title and then you said you're attracted to a lot of black men who worship your body and want to have a lot of sex.

    You're not making any sense, do you actually know what it means to objectify women?
    Sex is a pretty significant part of objectification; it seems like they're treating her as meat if sex is the only thing she can fathom about them.
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    (Original post by AndrewSCO)
    Cause that's not racist
    hows it racist
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    'Worshipping your body' and 'being sexual' doesn't equate to objectifying women the way I see it. In a sexual relationship, I'd imagine this would be a nice thing.
    It becomes objectification when one reduces the women to those sexual body parts and believes that's their sole purpose etc.
    I'm not sure whether you're drawing a correlation between black guys and sexual objectification also, cause y'know that would be an unpleasant generalisation.
    If the whole body focus thing works for you and makes you feel good then go for it, each to their and no one can tell you what's right or wrong for you.
    Perhaps it's healthier when paired with other attributes?
    Also, for clarification, do you mean you like it when they do the whole worship the body thing and be sexual and then when the deed is done they're done?
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    (Original post by CraigBackner)
    hows it racist
    She basically said "I'm attracted to guys who objectify women, this is why I like black guys"

    Unless I misunderstood, the OP wasn't exactly in flowing English.
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    Is English your first language?
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    (Original post by AndrewSCO)
    She basically said "I'm attracted to guys who objectify women, this is why I like black guys"

    Unless I misunderstood, the OP wasn't exactly in flowing English.
    its not exactly racist is just rude and a massive generlastion
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    (Original post by AndrewSCO)
    She basically said "I'm attracted to guys who objectify women, this is why I like black guys"

    Unless I misunderstood, the OP wasn't exactly in flowing English.
    I didn't mean to generalise, I just mean I have come across that treatment A LOT more in black guys than other races and I enjoy it..
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    (Original post by UWS)
    Would it be the man in your other thread by any chance?
    https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/sho....php?t=4392070

    Sounds like you're just into one man who gives you a lot of attention.
    Lol...something like that.
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    (Original post by jay2013)
    No. But go on, be a w**** if you want.
    Cause that's not sexist.
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    (Original post by RussianMan)
    Is English your first language?
    It is, I just wrote it quickly as was in a rush.
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    (Original post by EC)
    Wth? You said you're attracted to men who objectify women in the title and then you said you're attracted to a lot of black men who worship your body and want to have a lot of sex.

    You're not making any sense, do you actually know what it means to objectify women?
    Yeah, I like men who want me just for my body and sex and nothing else..
 
 
 
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